Ladies: I am a guy who likes privacy. most of the time I can't open up and make friends with strangers instantly (women or men). Can you please tell me what kind of conversation/topics are you/would you like to have with guys at Bars, Clubs?

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• I must add that I have no trouble approaching women, and as a good looking guy I have seen probably intelligent good looking women in bars. bars have become places people go to just to hang out with friend. I just feel that talking about my work or her work is too serious for a first time you meet in a noisy place.. sometimes I see some guys whispering in a girl's ear for 20min or so... On what topics can they possibly talk when they only met 3min ago?

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  by Anonymous on April 30th, 2009

• Any guy whispering in my ear for 20 minutes has nothing PG rated to tell me. Bottom line, be careful who you meet in bars and what their motives are. Just because you ask her where she's going in life does not mean you have to discuss her job. If I were in a bar and a man asked me where I was going in life, I would tell him about how I am a student and I would like to get my degree in forensic psychology and possibly work for the government. I work at DQ. Where I am going in life and my job have nothing in common. My job just pays the bills.
  
  After we discussed my goals and his, maybe he'd ask me why I wanted to work for the government. I think criminals are interesting. I am not one, in fact, I have given up a lot of fun times in my life in order to still have the chance to work for the government. I do no regret it. Don't get me wrong, I can party like the best of them, but I know my limits. An example would be attending the Ludacris concert during Little 5 week last week.

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  by denise20keriann on April 30th, 2009

• It was a bomb ass concert, but I wasn't one of the many smoking pot and stumbling around drunk. I would have liked to have been drinking, but I needed to drive home.
  So then the guy would talk about what he likes to do for fun. Maybe he likes sports. Well I play softball and volleyball and love to watch college basketball and football. Maybe he watches college ball, too.
  
  etc.
  
  It all goes from there and it's quality conversation.

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  by denise20keriann on April 30th, 2009

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• do you know alot about psycology? Did you take a class on it or is it just from experience? Im very interested in psychology and i was jw

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  by ChrisChambers4ever on April 30th, 2009

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