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Why is it wrong to have more than one lover when Abraham did it himself and God Loved him

By stukn1986 Asked Apr 29 2009 11:46AM
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by weareallhypocrites on May 14, 2009 at 12:17 pm Permalink

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because men are masters at "interpreting" God's word to fit whatever the cultural moral standard is at the time.
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Avatar weareallhypocrites May, 14 2009 at 12:49 PM
The exact same christians today would have argued passionately that slavery was right and that witches should be tortured and burned just a couple hundred years ago based off the exact same book. A book that is so capable of being interpreted in such extreme ways ifs obviously open to so much interpretation that consensus will never be obtained and it will continue to be cherrypicked and "re-interpreted" to suite the needs of those in power at the moment
Avatar amoeba1911 May, 15 2009 at 10:45 AM
The problem is when religious text is taken literally and used as a basis for law. Even the constitution of the United States written just a few hundred years ago is open to interpretation, a collection of moral stories written two thousand years ago by dozens of people assembled by hundreds, copied by thousands, the bible is SO open to interpretation that it might as well be a blank book where people just write whatever they want in its pages.
Avatar weareallhypocrites May, 15 2009 at 10:56 AM
yup

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by Hillbilly on May 14, 2009 at 3:00 pm Permalink

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Incest was oked by God also.
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by alvaro on May 14, 2009 at 2:57 pm Permalink

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I think if you're truly someone's lover, you won't want anyone else.
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by dumdum on May 14, 2009 at 2:55 pm Permalink

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If I agreed there was a question here I would have to agree with the first part where you seem to assume that I believe it would be wrong - which I don't.
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by schmee2369 on May 14, 2009 at 2:55 pm Permalink

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...population was different. It was a good thing then for mens seed to grow...and populate the world, expecially the good men. Today with it being different...its not the same. And really, its only the law of america that needs it 1 on 1.
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Answer 6 out of 17

by Chubbychaser84 on May 14, 2009 at 2:51 pm Permalink

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The old an new testament contradict themselves all the time ie old testament in support of capital punishment and new testament says you should not kill in the 10 commandments. old testament says and eye for an eye and new testament changes it to turn the other cheek. The Bible is a collection of rules to live by made by many different people.
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by thatsJustme on May 14, 2009 at 12:13 pm Permalink

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abraham married hagar at sarah's urging....he and sarah doubted God and got impatient...HE had promised a son, which HE gave, but 10 yrs. later....remember the sons name? means laughter, sarah laughed at God....Abraham would not of done this..but he was to blame as much as Sarah.....yes , God loved Abraham, Moses , everyone...but they were human and sinners....see, God does loves sinners...look at how much HE loved Moses....Abraham stumbled, as we all do...but God always worked the "human tendancies " out to fulfill the Savior Plan...:)also notice...they may have had more than one wife...but never divorced..God hates divorce and will not look over BROKEN VOWS..
sarah gave hagar to wife...as she was the first....abraham loved Ishmael also, but God said to send her away ..HE would see to Ishamael ..as Isaac was of the Savior Promise of Abraham's descendants...
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Avatar Mr Fixit May, 15 2009 at 10:46 AM
No, as the Israelites were given a law too, although I don't know what different Jewish factions practice these days at all. Actually, I have no idea on what a Jewish person believes is right in this department.
Avatar weareallhypocrites May, 15 2009 at 10:57 AM
ok. thanks
Avatar Mr Fixit May, 15 2009 at 11:01 AM
No worries mate.

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by Thinker on May 14, 2009 at 10:52 am Permalink

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King David was given all of Saul's wives and concubines and God told him if he wanted more He would give them to him. Solomon had 400 wives and 300 concubines and he built the temple for God. Jacob had Leaha and Rebecca and he also had children with their handmaids. Abrahan was married to his sister, and also had children with her handmaids...There are many such cases in the Bible and God blessed almost everyone. God's way is for polygamy and it was never changed in the New Testament.
There are more polygamus societies in the world than monogamus societies.
There are a few polyanderous societies but this day and time with equal rights both polygamus and polyanderous marriages should be the norm.
Monogamus marriages came about because of Roman law.
Here is some information concerning what I have said:
http://www.libchrist.com/bible/DavdSolomon.html
http://www.libchrist.com/bible/oneflesh.html
http://www.libchrist.com/bible/history.html
http://www.patriarchywebsite.com/monogamy/mono-history.htm

You may or may not agree with what I have said here and that is your choice. I offer these sites only as an explianation and enlarge on what I have said.
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Answer 9 out of 17

by Blackberry. on May 14, 2009 at 12:15 pm Permalink

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It's not wrong....you just have to find someone that's ok with it. And FYI not many people take those biblical fairytales so serious anymore.
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Answer 10 out of 17

by Anonymous on May 15, 2009 at 10:32 am Permalink

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There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven—
A time to give birth and a time to die; A time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted.
A time to kill and a time to heal; A time to tear down and a time to build up.
Perhaps there was a time to take on many wives too...
but that time is past.
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Avatar MisterKnowItAll May, 15 2009 at 10:49 AM
There is no commandment forbidding killing. It also made a nice pun, given the similar colloquialism.
Avatar Anonymous May, 15 2009 at 08:36 PM
The commandants might be a little clearer if they listed all the exceptions... but then they wouldn't have fit on the tablets. God does lots of killing... in the great flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, Lot's wife... And tells various biblical characters to kill: Abraham is told to kill his son, and Exodus states that anyone who doesn't observe the sabbath should be put to death. That's not so weird, modern laws work the same way. In general, don't kill other people, but it's ok if we hire you as a soldier and send you to war, it's ok if we hire you as a prison executioner, etc.
Avatar MisterKnowItAll May, 15 2009 at 10:43 PM
Killing isn't mentioned in the 10 Commandments!!! lol The Commandment is about murder, specifically (if you ever decide to read original copy instead of the Christianized version) premeditated acts of murder. See, not all languages are like English; in some, they might have 10 different words to describe different kinds of killing, but when we read it we just say "killing." That happens A LOT with Chinese, especially in medicine, as they have countless names for each kind of condition making it as specific of a diagnosis as possible. Anyway. The commandment is about premeditated murder, not killing; the exceptions are listed: hunting someone down to kill them = a no-no.


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