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by Anonymous on April 28th, 2009

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How do you get over someone you love? Anyone and everyone please i need help i just want this pain to stop... I even think suicidal sometimes. please! i just need advise.

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  • by ssuess on April 28th, 2009

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    you will meet someone new and a few years down the road you won't even be able to believe the way you felt right now. live your life, don't waste it on something that wasn't meant to be. ++

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  • by Jen-Jen on April 28th, 2009

    Jen-Jen

    I don't know if this will help, but it's gotten me through some ruff times.

    First, people enter our lives because either we need them, they need us, we have something to show or teach them, or vise-versa. But when we accomplish what we were brought together to do, we move on to help someone else. Although the losing hurts, you have to understand that someone else needs them more, and soon someone else will be knocking on your door. Cherish the time you had, but don't destroy the memory by allowing their departure to destroy you.

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  • by Anonymous on April 28th, 2009

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    okay suicide is a little extreme. and you don't get over them easy. best thing to do is accept it. find someone to distract you and i know that will be hard to do but... the pain doesn't just go away.i like to run and do lots of exercising. it really helps it feels like your getting somewhere and it burns off extra energy and helps you sleep. i find that listening to really hardcore metal bands and emo-rock is a good way to release a little emotion.

    uhh.... i hope that helps a little.

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  • by virgo17 on April 29th, 2009

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    I completely understand your pain. I also had my heart broken. It has been a week and it seems like I will never get past the pain. I am sorry for your loss, please know there are alot of us out there.

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  • by Grandma Roses - my avatar is my real dog on April 28th, 2009

    Grandma Roses - my avatar is my real dog

    Please realise that the pain will not stop quickly. Like the pain from any kind of injury or trauma, it is a sign that healing is taking place and you just cannot rush it.

    You will not die from it, even though it sometimes feels like it. Use the pain to motivate yourself to move on and get past what caused the pain.

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  • by Anonymous on April 28th, 2009

    Anonymous

    because i cant stand watching the person i love love someone else it hurts so much.

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  • by NoMorph on April 28th, 2009

    NoMorph

    You'll get over it in time. It's the only way. It WILL pass, trust me. Nearly ALL of us have been through it! Back when I last had that problem I used to go to the park and nature areas and just walk or hike for hours at least once a week and it was a great way for me to get back in touch with my self.

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