Have you ever hurt someone on accident with a (bad) decision you've made and you can't seem to forgive yourself for the hurt you caused?
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Happy to be me
ANSWERS: 9
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Yes but time will eventually heal it.
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Yes i tortured my younger neighbor and still feel sorry for him!
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Yes when I decided to open my big mouth.
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yes and i pray for them every morning, and ask forgiveness
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Yes I thought I was helping and trying to help him build up his strength but now i feel as if I was bullying him because i did not want him to leave..
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Last week i decided to say bad things to all my former classmates so they would hate me..Most of them do.. I have my own reason to do that but now i feel so guilty...
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Yes. In college a guy fell in love with me and I did not love him. He was a nice guy, but we had little in common. When I told him that I did not love him back, I should have left it there. I stupidly told him some of the reasons that I did not love him and it hurt him badly. I didn't intend to hurt him and was not thinking. I have regretted it for years.
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If it's on accident, I could live with it. My demons reside in what I have done without too much concern about the end result.
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Yes! It's killing me. I found out years after the fact that I put someone I loved through the greatest pain they've ever experienced. They went through years of emotional and psychological recovery without my knowledge. It would have taken vertually no effort on my part to help (or even completely) remove their pain and sorrow if only I'd known. The worst part is that it was due to my own lack of sensitivity or maturity that I didn't realize what they were going through. In hindsight it is so overwhelmingly obvious what I did. I don't even recognize the person I was back then. And they didn't say anything out of respect for my situation. They were completely selfless and I was a blind dumbass. I loved this person more than anything and somehow I managed to hurt them more than I've hurt anyone. And it was nothing that I did - it was what I failed to do. They assure me now that it's ok and they're doing fine and it's in the past. But I see the emotional scares in their eyes. And all I can say is I'm sorry over and over again. I'll die greiving over this.
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