I have caught my 14 year old son looking at porn Recently. I don't know what to think, what do you think?

I think its normal..and I don't see the problem with it...unless that is all he does.. but porn is good in a healthy dose...don't mark me down..just being honest...

I think it is pretty normal. I used to love porn when I was 14.

He's 14. He is becoming a MAN, as opposed to a child. That means he is beginning to notice that there are two genders and is expressing curiosity in women.

It's natural. Get used to the fact that he is not a little boy any more.

It's normal... as long as there weren't farm animals involved! ;-)

Your son got busted early. It's pretty normal in average households. I seem to recall not getting busted until I was 16 or so.
Also...you might want to hide your 'mags better. :)

What is there to think?

Your son is going through puberty.

It isn't unusual for someone of his age to be... interested. It must have been embarrasing for him to have been caught, though. I doubt you'll be able to convince him to give up the habit, so make sure that when he does browse it, he doesn't download any viruses.

That is not rare for teenage boys. However you might want to set up Parental Controls.

Well i think, This coming from a 13 year old who looks at porn daily, That yes it should be okay as long as he's not doing it 24/7.....Also it depends on the type of porn, anything bisexual, lesbian, gay, or hard core maybe might be too much, i look at porn, first out of curiosity
of body parts, and now for the feeling i get when i look at them. Anyways thats my point of view.

i think it is absolutely normal
dont worry about it and let him slide this time and he'll think youre a pretty cool parent. seriously its no big deal.

I was a 13 year old girl when I got my first Playgirl Magazine. It is normal for guys and gals. And even though I looked at Playgirl I didn't see men as only a SEX objects[sex objects when I masurbated though] and I'm sure it's the same with most boys/men.

I just GAVE my 14 year old son porn. (soft, Playboy)... He had questions, I had answers.

The alternative is for him to get his information from other 14 year old boys.

Of course, I demanded that he keep it home and concealed - out of respect to the subject, and to people it might offend.

You might take it as an opportunity to discuss such things, rather than to be embarrassed, or angry. If you don't teach him, his "boys" will.

Tke it as a good sign. at least he's not gay... unless its gay pron then there is a problem... but antwho it is perfectly normal for a 14 year old to look at porn. just don't make him feel like he is doing anything wrong.

This is perfectly normal. He is just growing. Don't let him know you know, because it might make him feel embarrassed or shameful, which isn't good.

porn is better than alcohol at that age

IT IS NORMAL FOR MALES AND FEMALES AT THAT AGE!

It is normal for teenage boys and girls. Please remember girls masturbate too! I looked at Playgirl at age 13 and masturbated. That's all we had besides our imaginations!

you should be proud of him now that you know that he likes girls and he is straight, if i was you , i would give him is advise in case he get a girl , so teach him how to get protected and all the things you know , c'mon dude, be a father and show him what is out there, make'm be open with you and he will tell you everything,, trust me bro,,My son was the same way and now he's in the navy, and I was also the same when I was young too, just open that door to him but always with the right advises ok ??? or you make your son when you were praying ??? aha !!! remember you were young once too.. good luck and I hope my advice has gave you an idea of how to deal with your boy , ok my bro ???? your friend ,,, Georgie....

I think he's actually a normal 14 year old. This is not uncommon. You should really talk to him about the subject so you can see where his thoughts are on the matter. Tell him the goods the bads the rights the wrongs the ins the outs (no pun intended) about $ex... if you haven't done this already. Monitor his actions towards the issue and proceed accordingly, but keep in mind, he's not doing anything abnormal.

well 98% of guy do look at it, that doesn't excuse it when I was fourteen I watched a lot, but got though it on my own, but I recombined sitting down with him and explain the possible consequences.

I think he is acting like most 14 year old boys who have hormones raging and those hormones are dictating his actions.

If you do not want him looking you are the parent and can control the access he has to such things in your home. True enough you cannot when he is away from home.

It's totaly normal most boys his age do,i would'nt worry about it.

I agree that it is normal but I think you need to start talking to him all all the issues that go with sex. Not just where do babies come or infomation about STD's but also about the emotional responsiblities of have sex.

Not much, it seems pretty normal to me.

Ah I had a porn collection at 13 that would have made most grown men blush. Not to worry it's normal, just don't approve of it take it and add it to your own collection.

I think he sounds like a normal 14 year old boy.

Would you rather him look at porn and masturbate or have sex and get a STD or a girl pregnant? Relax, he is just beginning to feel attraction to the almighty woman, I feel it is perfectly normal as I looked at porn when I was 13.

They DO grow up fast these days don't they?

It is normal for boys and girls to do that at that age. It isn't just a guy thing people! I bought Playgirl at age 13 and masturbated constantly. That's all we girls had back then and off course our imagination!! Now there Women's Porn and much more for us! But why do you men think only guys do this? Are you guys that dumb?

Sounds normal to me, as long as he doesn't get into anything hardcore, disturbing or start to show signs that he's addicted, and if there's a man in his life (father or another guy he's comfortable with)he should talk with him if you think the porn is starting to control him and have his father go over what is considered ok and what is crossing the line

dont let him know you know, that would just humiliate him

its not normal. it needs to be curbed. because porn is a false satisfying way to view a woman. They make the woman and sex appealing but its lust and fake. He needs to learn to control that and save it for marriage. Sex before marriage isn't blessed and total satisfying.

Have him check out the book, Every Man's Battle. But it is a battle. God has a great plan for your son and a wonderful wife / marriage and satan is out to steal from your son, the true value of love and sex. So porn does that. It takes away the beauty of a woman and makes her into a object

PPPPOOOORRRRNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Most of the stuff online is not just natural sex. I think you should have a talk with your son.

its normal... you should get him some normal porn for the next holiday that comes up. and some hot girl on girl.

14 Yep, that sounds about right. His hormones are acting up and he is probably wacking it also. Instead of being scared of sex, talk to him about it and let him know the facts. Face it, he is at the starting stage and probably knows more than what you think he does. At this stage it is great if a parent can let the kid know the goodness in sex, the protections, the hazards, and honesty. Want to keep him close, talk and comminicate, push the topic of sex away and push your child away. Time for the parent to also be a friend. Hope, you can see where I am coming from. Please do not get pissed, just another point of view.

tell him to be careful and protect himself, he can get a bad virus from some porn sites, use a good anti virus program

Dont think anything

Id be more concerned if he wasnt looking at porn, his sexuality is waking up.

It's normal. He's horny. Porn shows him what he's after. It doesn't mean he's a deviant or potential rapist...just a normal person...

i think he is doing what all 14 year olds do but in our day it was the sears catalog.

as u know i have watched porn since im 10years old,stumbled apon some of pornographic material in my dads drawer, but that doesnt stop me from living a normal life..what im trying to tel u is..its normal for a guy at that age to be active in pornographic..infact he may already learn how to masturbate and is active in that at this time of the age...its so common nowdays and if u dun do it....ur consider a wussy or a mama's boy among his frens..the best thing for u is not to do anything for now..he is goin through puberty..

have sex with him

Normal, but from now on you need to knock and wait before entering his bed or bath rooms - where there is porn there is masterbation and that is something neither of you want the other to see

it's normal for his age..Don't make a big deal about it..
ALl boys go through the same urges..
Talk to him calmly and don yell at him..
Just make sure he doesn't do it too much..
Well..this is not helping is it??

He's growing up. where did he get it, that is the question

stay out of your child's sex life, but show them what condoms are and teach them how not to get sex diseases.

you should try to forget that your son looks at porn. one day children start doing this. do you relay want to be there when they do?

lol

I would let him carry on but certainly not condone it. Being 14 and being curious about sexuality is totally normal. As long as he isnt watching kiddie porn or animal sex or violence, then just let him 'get away with it' and say nothing. Masturbation, and the porn and fantasy related to it, is totally natural. Let him grown up normal and do not chastise him for his natural sexual feelings popping up during puberty.

I just hope your son was also pleasuring himself, without the shame of being exposed having felt represed sexually. A loving Mom might give the boy guidence to assist in his learning such a valuable tool life.

I think you should learn to use the parental controls if it's on the computer. If it's magazines, help him to understand that that is not a true reflection of healthy sexual appetites. Puberty is puberty and he is going to be interested in all things sexual, but there are other ways of learning about it than porn.

sorry my stupid ass friend went on my account while i was in the restroom

i would set up a block list in the computer settings