by Anonymous on April 21st, 2009

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I cry over my best friend each night be4 i go to sleep and i tell myself she isnt the 1 but deep down i love her more than i could ever love anyone else, she has a bf i wound up telling her 2 months ago and i'v only hurt more since then.what shood i do?

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  • by joshua on April 21st, 2009

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    As hard as it is to believe, you'll be okay. i'm in the same boat. This is a great place for advice, so listen to everyone's opinion because there's no wrong answer. Trust me, my wife left me in december and i went to some dark places. But guess what? about three weeks ago i met someone who made me happier than my wife ever did. And i'm stuck in the friend deal too. But it gave me hope. Hope that maybe we might be more later. Hope that if not, i'll still have a really good friend that makes me laugh and smile on the worst of days. Just kind of relax (i know, trust me i know how hard it is) because if you push too hard, you'll push her away. And pushing her away will not leave room for her to see if she may feel differently about you later. If she's your best friend, respect her boundaries and be the best friend you can be. Who knows, something may happen, then again it may not. But regardless, there are plenty of gals out there that are just as cool as her. You'll be "aight".

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  • Spend time with your guy friends. Talk to girls. Just talk--don't make any moves. Do social things for a year, and you won't remember ol' what's-her-name.

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