by Kallous on April 18th, 2009

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How do you know your relationship is just about lust and sex and not love?

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  • by Anonymous on April 19th, 2009

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    If it were just about lust and sex then that would be all you do. If you can talk to each other, go do things together and enjoy one anothers company. Just doing normal everyday things then that gives you a pretty good idea that it's more than just sex.

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  • by Randy D on November 21st, 2009

    Randy D

    That's easy to answer:

    If you're a guy, and it's before the wedding, it's lust and sex.

    After the wedding, it's forced celibacy, so if you stay, it must be love.

    (I've stayed, by the way.)

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  • by ChocolateEclair on November 18th, 2009

    ChocolateEclair

    Agree with anonymous, but with new relationships, you're not just going to have sex once in a blue moon. It's new, it's exciting, and you want it. All the time. It's in this situation that you need to ask yourself, are we making love or just having sex? Aka, is this about the sex or do we love each other?

    I would say making love is when you have eye contact (doesn't have to be all the damn way through), kissing, whispers to each other (these have to be affectionate, there's a difference between 'I love you' and 'you're my dirty slut'). And also after sex, does the guy clean up and then go and do his own thing? Or do you lie there together, talking about nothing and everything? So, you can be having a lot of sex and still be in love with the person.

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