Personally, I like it. Kitt made the first move on me. :)

No it doesn't seem desperate, it is a great idea.

Not desperate, Would make a nice change!

Well my partner liked that I made the first move and we have been married 24 years now.

The bold ass!

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I feel as if I am so loved. It means she is so intimate to me and I like it so much.

wow! that trigger curiosity, i love to go out with girl like that.

1. All's fair in love and war. 2. Saves me from getting up the nerve to make the first move. 3. At least, that way I know she's interested! I can understand reasons why the guy "should" make the first move, but in my case, those reasons are numbed out by points two and three above. The guy should make the first move (but then again, the woman can always "encourage" the first move by being in the right place or whatever) but life is too short for bullshit. If you aren't getting the results, I don't see any reason to waste any more time just for "tradition". I think the real worry about a girl making the first move is if the guy uses it as "evidence" against her (eg "You must like me alot so you must want us to have sex right now", to be blunt). When the guy makes the first move, the woman is free to say, "Not yet ...", but in the former example the woman is still free to say, "I didn't realise you were like that ..." So yeah, if I was single and the girl made the first move then I'd just be happy that she did the hard part for me. I think it makes life easier for the girl if the guy makes the first move, but it's not the kind of thing to sweat over. Life is too short. Think, plan, then go for it.

The rules change all the time. Nothing wrong with the girl making the first move. She just likes you. Just don'nt geta big head over it.

What makes you think guys hate girls who make the 1st move? We absolutely love it! Just don't do it with all your girlfriends around though.

I put the moves on my partner when I first met him! He was slightly taken aback by my being so upfront. I was at a club with my friends and saw him watching me and liked the look of him so I left my friends and just walked up to him told him he was gorgeous and gave him my phone to put his number in.

i'm not opposed to that by any means.

I absolutely love women or girls like that! It shows that they are bold and not scared, Those type of women are so so rare to find. I've had a couple of females do that with me. But 99% I always have to do all the talking and make the first move. Women with "balls" sort of speak lol. She's not desperate to me if she made the first move on me. Girls can get anyone they want all the time its the guys that are desperate in trying to get the chicks. Because most times the guys have to make the move and get rejected or turned down 99% of the time. For me its a relief for me having to build up the mountain of courage and confidence to go make a move on a girl that 9 times out of 10 will say "no thanks." Atleast I know she likes me for sure the other way around.

Not only desperate, but begging. I would have no respect for a female that asked me for a date. Why? It just hits me the wrong way.

I like it. My wife made the first move.

Why the hack does every girl believe that we hate it. We love Sweden for that. in their culture the girls always make the first move. It doesn't seem desperate. not at all.