I am a guy. I am graduating high school in less than two months. I have a fiance whom will go to the same college as me. I have a predicament though. I think I have fallen in love with my best friend(girl). I dont want to regret anything,what do I do?
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I can see your ready for marriage. Focus on college and wait til your done with school. .
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Wait and wait some more until you have a clearer picture of what you really want with which girl. Don't compromise your schooling on a girl whom you might not be with in the end.
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You are too young to have a fiancé. Break it off NOW. Or wait until you are married, have a child, finally get divorced, pay child support, be a miserable long distance father and spend half or more of every family holiday for the rest of your life wondering who your children are with, what they are doing, and why you screwed up the lives of at least a dozen people forever just because you didn't have the balls to break up with your high school sweetie.
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Learn from your predicament and NOT get engaged whilst still a teenager. in all seriousness...accept the fact that you will have regrets. there's no way out of this situation, or indeed, most of life's other situations without regrets of some kind.
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Aside from the fact that your engaged you need to be free during school. Do NOT mess with your best friends girl. chances are its the chase. Once your together it probably wouldn't last long and then you'd be ledt without a best friend and it would be hard for any of your other friends to trust you around their girlfriends.
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IF you regret anything you will only grow from the knowledge you gain and will know what to do next time. Have fun, these years are supposed to be fun. If you really want to avoid regrets be honest, never lie or hide things from people you claim to care about because it hurts worse to hear about them later. Ask yourself what you would want your girlfriend to do if she was in your predicament.
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ok first off ur too young to being getting married how do i know this well the prove is right there ur in love with another girl no im sorry ur best friend girl yep ur so ready to get married!!!!! don't kid ur self ur not ready for this r u nuts ur going to college with alot girls whom you'll want to date and mess with all ur not in love with ur bf girl u just love the chase hello every guy out there desire what he can't have its true once u have her u won't stay to long with her she'll get boaring to u so don't crush ur fiance heart and ur bf just bc u want to have this girl u need to break up with fiance bc its not fair for her if u feel in love for another girl bc if u care about ur fiance then you must let her go and move on now so she can find someone who could really love and marry her bc u not that guy! give her at least that much k seriously its not worth her poor broken heart just try to stay friends or not whatever but stop this madness!!!!!!!!
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Lusting over another woman when you are committed to one, already, is always trouble. What does your best friend think about all this? Is she even romantically interested in you? If not, then you need to mature and find closure with this fantasy of yours. If I was your fiance' I would postpone the wedding until you have closure on this issue.
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You're very young to be engaged, though I'm sure your intention is pure. More than that, your headed into a period of your life where you'll have new experiences almost every day. You'll meet people, learn things, broaden your horizons. Maybe you would be better off talking honestly with your finacee and putting off any serious commitment to anyone until some time has gone by. A little time and distance can often offer amazing clarity. Whatever you choose, do it honestly, openly and with regard for everyone. Good luck.
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When someone has trouble choosing between two men or women, I always advise them to choose neither of them. Even if your best friend was interested in you, the integrity of the relationship would be tainted by the fact that you lusted after her while you were with someone else. How do you know that the same thing won't happen again if you do date your best friend? I also think you should break of the engagement to your fiance. If you're strongly atttracted to someone else while you're committed to her, then that's not a good sign. Both of you will end up unhappy if you stay in this relationship.
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relax. your just getting out of highschool and trust me, once you get to college your going to be around a whole new crowd of girls who knows who ull fall in love with next
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