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Well, as a shy and sometimes paralyzingly depressed individual myself, my best advice is to analyze what your biggest insecurity is, and compare that insecurity to what your interpretation of others' insecurities are. My biggest insecurity for example is that I am in fact lonely. Humorously enough, everyone that I can think of is lonely too, just not as frequently as I am. And further, that allows me to put myself on the same playing field as everyone else, and allows me to go up to people, and think to myself "this is the only chance you're ever gona get to talk to this person" (even if its not true) and strike up a simple conversation about anything i can find worth talking about, I'm pretty funny, so I can make simle statements and usually confuse people in order to make them laugh, then i've made a very good impression. So my advice is to solve your biggest problem with yourself, then force yourself to go and talk to somebody out there, you'll find that people always surprise you, and honestly if u r cautious, and smart about it, you'll find those surprises to be good ones.
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