ANSWERS: 7
  • Sounds good enough to me. Just be honest with him like you've been here and wish him well. It's never going to be easy but there's no point in dragging it out.
  • I think it is admirable of you not to want to hurt his feelings. In reality, we are all responsible for our own feelings, though. I would give it to him straight. Try to put the blame more on yourself then him. Tell him you both have different ideas about the future. Then explain it is not personal. As a previous answer said, it is very good that you realize now instead of ten years down the road married with children. Just be kind and honest and things should work out. Good luck! If you wish, please post a comment on how things turned out.
  • a person that doesn't know where he is heading is only dragging you along for the ride, dont waste time your life will be gone some day and you will wonder where it went, stop making decisions based on everyone elses happiness and start looking for yours, if someone else is up for the ride there more than welcome to join but not expect it to change rout, be happy and someone will be happy next to you, dont make two lives miserable bail out and expect the best for you if he cant get over it, ti might be the wakeup call he is in desperate need of, and when he realizes it he will thank you.
  • i think its a good enough reason. if you aren't happy in the relationship anymore. there is absolutely no easy way to break up with someone but just be honest and tell him the truth. wish you luck.
  • This is a very good reason. It sounds like you enjoy him as a person, as in, you don't hate him, but sometimes two people just aren't compatible. My sister has dated many guys in her life, and she has stayed friends with most of them. My point is that, you don't have to hate someone to figure out that it won't work romantically between you two. It sounds like you have figured this out and I think you just need to speak your mind.
  • Any reason is good enough when you're dating. If you're not happy move on. It's an entirely different story if you're married or have children together.
  • By summer111 on Apr 13th, 2009

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