ANSWERS: 12
  • if you are questioning it then no. but it may be a nice gesture if you two still talk and are on friendly terms.
  • Go ahead. Say it. Happy Birthday u jerk.
  • Whatever rocks your boat, hon
  • Im having the same problem! My ex has his birthday next week - we are NOT exactly on speaking terms - a very hurtful and dirty break up - but i stupidly feel the need to wish him happy birthday! I dont think I will though. He has told me he doesnt wish to speak to me anymore (I dont blame him - I have vented ALOT to him regarding the disgusting way he treated me) - so I guess this also means I am not to wish him a happy birthday - so I wont!
  • If you want to say it then you still care.If he reacts bad then you will learn to forget him faster.Hope it works out.
  • Remember - he is the EX - so you should be all about forgetting him. If you do this - then in some way you still want him in your life. So if he is the EX - then don't do it.
  • I say go ahead.
  • I was in the same position...don't do it...it will only make you feel worse...
  • NO...spend your time focusing on moving forward. if he's such a jerk, why on earth would you want to wish him a happy birthday? that's twisted!
  • No. You don't actually care if he has a happy birthday. You just want to use his birthday as an excuse to contact him in hopes that he might response and that response can then be interpreted to mean something. Nobody who is over a crappy ex genuinely just wants to wish them a happy birthday
  • You are only asking... Because you know it would be a dumb thing to do. Consider this your confirmation. But im afraid you will anyway? Don't we all???
  • Sweetheart, listen to me...he doesn't deserve a happy birthday wish from you, he's just a jerk and you should forget all about his birthday. Better yet, you should make sure that you don't say a word to him, and then just go out and have a really good day for yourself just to spite him ;D

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