How can i stop feeling desperate? I've been single all my life never had sex. People say wait but it gets me down all the time. All i would love is a bit of affection. I see girls and couples in town and it makes me feel lonely, ugly and depressed.
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Its ok, I know how you feel too. You can try dating or meeting girls. Try starting out as friends, and see where it goes from there.
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Am I right in saying you are 21/22? I hate saying it, but I didn't have a real love relationship until I was 23. Didn't even start really dating until 21 - now I am happily married. Here is a list of what helped me a little: 1. Stay on top of fashion, I know it sounds shallow but when I stayed in shape and had on great outfits, it made me feel less ugly and unlovable. 2. Get some single friends to hang out with. It helped me a lot, met them in college, having people in the same boat with you helps. 3. Stay away from lovey couples, that's just toturing yourself. 4. Stay interesting, keep up on the latest issues, be well read, go out an do interesting things. Try to make it so you can strike up a conversation really easily. I hope this helps. Good Luck.
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By stop being desperate. That's how you'll stop feeling desperate. Now I'm not gonna abuse you verbally, cuz I think everyone's been there. Here, what you need to do, is learn the art of attraction, pick up women, date (1-2 dates) a couple of 'em, then when you find that one of 'em to be worth having a relationship with, start a relationship with that person. Now as a side note, I read your other question and I think I know where you should start. Here, this link might help: http://www.daviddeangelo.com/ Sign yourself up for his free e-mails he gives out once every two or three days, too. You also need to order yourself the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss, rent it, buy it at a bookstore, whatever (or e-book). He's part of the seduction community. This will make you ask me, 'What's the seduction community?'. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community Those guys have some vids on youtube as well.... Read, read, read, and put all of that theory into real life one day. Tell me what you think after a couple of days of reading..... Enjoy
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...my husband didnt really have a girlfriend until me, he was 25. I know being single kinda makes you WANT things....but...really it also gives you alot of time to prepare for what you ACTUALLY WANT. Get a good job...something your happy with, do your school work...(to the best of your ability)...pay on a good reliable car...work out, get healthy...eat right...focus on other things...read, study...train in a martial art, really get in tip top shape physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually... become all you can be...and eventually THE ONE will find YOU...and appriciate you even that much more.. YOU KNOW YOU HAVE ALOT OF LOVE TO GIVE....RIGHT? WELL....there is a girl out there who needs that love....and she has the same amount of love to give back to you......
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Women are not difficult to find. From your question it is difficult to determine whether or not you want a relationship or a lay?If you want a serious relationship you must clearly define what you want so when you find her you will not scramble to determine if she is the ONE! As far as waiting is concerned, waiting is fine however, while you wait take Bookworm's advice and work on yourself to attract the type of woman that you want.
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Desperation and comparing yourself to other people will not help you be happy....EVER.
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Wow, and I thought I was the only one on this planet like that. The questions on the matter that really need answering: Every girl I've known and been just mere friends with is taken already when I try to get a chance with them. Is this some sort of race?! How can I tell if someone is single or not? And no, looking at their info on it on some site or whatever doesn't count.
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