by hesidoalejandra on April 6th, 2009

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Met a really lovely, kind, and honest guy online and we chatted on cam together. But I'm afraid of falling in love with a stranger, I'm also very busy studying, and need to end this thing before it's too late... What should i tell him,not to hurt him?:(

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  • by lonelydragon on April 6th, 2009

    lonelydragon

    Don't give up yet. It sounds like he may be a nice person, and if you're scared and let go now, you might miss a great guy. Even if you're studying, you still need to make time for other fun things in life, including dating. You could just let him know you're busy, you aren't free to chat as much, and you'd like to slow things down a bit.

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  • by Uncle Floyd on August 24th, 2009

    Uncle Floyd

    So, if he is a stranger, how do you know he is kind and honest?And, what makes you think you are going to "fall in love with him"? Or, that his is going to fall in love with you?

    Tell him you are "very busy studying" and you don't have time for a relationshjip, so you are not going to get involved in one with him.

    Be at peace.

    Be kind. Be joyful. Be safe.

    Sincerely,
    Uncle Floyd

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  • by RecentlyBrokenUp on April 8th, 2009

    RecentlyBrokenUp

    Why do you feel like you need to break it off? Tell him the truth, that you're concerned about how you don't really know him well, that you're a very busy person, and he'll need to give you some space.

    If he says "okay, fine, this isn't going to work" then there you have it. But if he's willing to be patient, then he gets points for that, don't you think?

    If you're interested in him, even a little, it might be worth it to you to keep it going with him on a very part-time basis. He might be just the thing for you while you are studying because he doesn't take up too much of your time and still gives you something nice to think about.

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  • by Lovely Angel on April 7th, 2009

    Lovely Angel

    just ignore him my dear!!!!!!!! dont chat with him or block him on ur msgr

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  • by BKing on April 6th, 2009

    BKing

    Why do you wanna end it.. just take it slow and get back on studies. You can stay friends and maybe in future when you have time you can move further in relationship.

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  • by Whaleboy999 on April 6th, 2009

    Whaleboy999

    Just tell him exactly what you just wrote (not in question form, of course). If he's kind, then he will definitley understand.

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  • by Okligas on April 6th, 2009

    Okligas

    Tell him the truth. Just say right now I need to focus on studying and also I dont know you all that well. Obviously apologize but if you break it to him softly, he will be alright I(hopefully)

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