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by Raggie on February 13th, 2007

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My girlfriend got drunk at a get together and came onto 2 guys. the first guy turned her down, the second did not. all 3 have confirmed this. i also found out she cybers, flirts with other guys and states she is single when asked. any help is appreciated

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  • by JUSTNORMAL on February 13th, 2007

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    I believe that she is not a girl who can be trusted, in any way shape or form. No one deserves to he beytrayed, lied to and cheated on. I know it wont be easy but I would call this relationship OFF and now. If she matures some and realizes she wants just you, then cross that bridge when you come to it. You should be out dating nice girls who are not into games.

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  • by Someguy on February 13th, 2007

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    Doesn't sound like she takes the relationship as seriously as you do. Talk to her (to confirm it) and be prepared to dump her. It's up to you as to how many of these instances you will forgive, but I would not give her a second chance.

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  • by Firebrand on February 13th, 2007

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    Talk about it if you feel it is worth it . IMO not being a very forgiving person and lathe disloyalty and betrayal in any form i could never trust this person again. not only having sex with people you know but cheap tacky cyber sex with stangers on line .
    Do you really want to bother with this person I truly wish you luck if you do, but my personal opinion is that you would be letting yourself in for a life of unhappiness and humiliation

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  • by keithold is a prodigal bagger on February 13th, 2007

    keithold is a prodigal bagger

    G'day Raggie,

    Thank you for your question.

    I would have a talk with her to clarify her status as your partner and to work on your relationship. It sounds that your and her interpretation of the relationship are different and you need to sort it out one way or the other.

    Regards

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  • by Shelby on June 21st, 2007

    Shelby

    So your girlfriend is actively searching out guys to cheat on you with...She is telling people she is single, and having cyber sex with other people.

    What do you need help with? I think it is clear that this relationship is ridiculously unhealthy for you, and this girl is walking all over you. Get rid of her ASAP and find a nice girl who deserves you.

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  • by Anonymous on February 13th, 2007

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    It sounds as though she is not very committed to the relationship. Maybe she is one of those people that cannot be alone.
    But, I think you should talk to her about what you both want in a relationship and your plans for the future. Your answer may lie there.

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  • by singwell-is off researching a lot on February 13th, 2007

    singwell-is off researching a lot

    yes, not a good relationship to be in. I would advise you to take some good friends and talk to her about this problem and see why she feels the need to behave in this way. She sounds like she feels worthless and so has to prove to herself that she is wanted. that is a big problem indeed and can lead to a wasted life. look at Anna Nicole Smith. That's your girlfriend on a larger scale.

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  • by Vesper on February 13th, 2007

    Vesper

    She's a loser! Get rid of her . She does not appreciate you and you can do better. I wouldn't take her back if she begged on her knees in the mud and pouring rain!!

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  • by Anonymous on February 13th, 2007

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    I would first go and talk with your girlfriend about this and see why she is doing this, and then if all else fails, you better bail!

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