ANSWERS: 6
  • Please meet the person and spend some time together before you decide if it's "love"! So many broken relationships and marriages ... people need to really get to know someone before they commit to them.
  • it could possibly be real..if he was completely honest with you online...but many things can only be discovered about each other in person..his kiss might be a turn off..he might have insane habits..it is definatly worth a shot however..so my answer is maybe..just go slow
  • What is "real love"? You love him, that much is true. You know it's true becuase you can feel it, it's that simple. Don't try to figure out what your feelings are telling you. Your feelings don't know the future: they aren't telling you anything more complex than what they feel like. If you feel love, then love is what you feel! Of course, you don't know him very well, so your love is necessarily shallow at this point. There's nothing wrong with that, it's unavoidable, it's how every relationship and friendship starts. Shallow doesn't mean you don't feel strongly, but shallow things, by nature, are at risk of drying up, no matter how rich and concentrated they are. There's nothing wrong with that, either, it's just nature. There's only one way to know if your love for him will dry up, or if it will develop into a deep, intimate relationship: give the relationship a chance. Meeting him once won't make any difference. It's not a matter of seeing him in person: it's a matter of time and care. The more time you spend with him, be it online or in person, the closer you will get to him. Of course, humans have a physical dimension (our bodies), and most of us need to share that in order to develop an intimacy with someone. So, if you restrict your relationship to online, you will likely encounter a road-block in your relationship that you find you won't be able to develop past. Meet him! And stop worrying! Are people criticizing your relationship or the way you feel or something? Try not to let them get to you, and try to clue them into the fact that you feel the way you feel, nothing more, nothing less. They should be happy for you. Don't express firm expectations about the future -- "this is the man I will marry!" That is foolish and people will treat you like a fool if you do. Just take things one day at a time.
  • well this really is an easy one! no ur not really in love with the person ur in love with conversations u guys have through online ur inlove with the idea of being inlove o yeah u don't understand u may think u do but its much more then u think first off hes most likely telling u what u want hear like most guys who want u and until u see him start dating him and see him for who he really is in person then in time you'll see if in fact u r in love with him!
  • One thing about the net you never know what or who your talking to. how do you tell he's not jack the ripper these men are great at dishing out the lines. He could be a good guy or> I don't know what to tell you What ever you decide play it safe.
  • It could be real love. Just be careful, people can become and act someone else in the internet. Cheating Married guys, bad guys, they usualy know how to make girls fall in love. I hope he's just normal guy. Good luck.

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