Remind him who you are.

Tell him who the hell you are. Say " remember im your wife mister".

make sure that you are correct about that, then ditch him.

Depending on you age, physical shape & situation you have two choices... Fire him... or 'shock & awe' him! The 'shock & awe' treatment, encompasses a COMPLETE make over of your person, & I do mean COMPLETE!!! Like take a walk on the 'wild side'! If your a conservative Suzy homemaker type place a personal ad for a HARLEY man looking for a women to ride behind him on his bike. He can get ya decked out in the leathers! Don't forget the plenty of 'make up' & slutty appearance, plenty of cleavage showing too! If ya don't smoke,learn to! Keep a quart of your favorite flavored Brandy with ya, plastic container ONLY! While yer at it meet a couple of Domme's(Dominatrix) to pal around with. Your hubby see ya with a six foot Domme(6 foot five inches) in 5" stiletto pumps in her 'dress' leathers with a whip on the hip, he'll be hunched over in pain like a dog sheetin razor blades!!! Learn to enjoy it while your 'shock & awing' him, those Harley's won't last forever. Of course you might be to frightened to try something original like I described, but if ya wanna stay marooned in the same oh same oh daily rut, that's YOUR loss NOT his! Life's short, live a little!

hasnt been ready?...are you sure your not doing something to cause this?...do you nag?...put down?...break his ego?...make him feel lesser than a man?...carry a higher bill paying job then he?...not hold yourself available to him whenever he needs?...constantly reject his work as unacceptable?... men dont want to talk... just show him acts of kindness throughout the day. Do small little special things throughout the day. Make him an extra cup of coffee, or run him a nice warm bath when he needs it. Give him a message as he watches tv...but lead that to nothing, just keep it for what it is. No talking, no leads...just simply that. Leave him a note in his pocket, as coming to work he finds it. Make it sweet but simple. "I love you, thinking of you, miss you" ...Sometimes we havta stop wondering why they dont care about us anymore...becuase alot of the times its not that, its they feel WE have lost intrest in THEM first...and lots of times they dont tell us...so it seems they have lost it

Does he really not care anymore, or is he acting like he always did and you are finally tired of it? You mentioned that you care for him like a child. Does he treat you like his mother? It sounds like you have been giving out a lot more that you are receiving. First you need to sit down, look at the situation and decide if it is worth salvaging. Do you love him? Do you want to stay married to him? If you do, you need to retrain him, just like you would a child or even a dog. Ask him to do small things for you - things you could do yourself - then thank him and praise him. "Would you please hand me the salt? - Thank you!" "Would you please bring me your dirty plate? - Thank you!" "Thank you for bringing in the groceries today." You must be sincere, or it will sound like sarcasm. Gradually work up to bigger things. It may sound stupid, and it may be a pain, but people often work all day at jobs where they are unappreciated and go home feeling the same way. Women feel this, too, but for some reason seem to be more forgiving of it. Some men would do almost anything if they felt someone cared - not just the clean clothes, cooked meal, clean house caring like their mother used to do, but the "you-are-such-an-awesome-man-what-would-I-do-without-you caring". Look at him when he talks; lean towards him; act interested. And above all, don't nag or ask for anything in return. If you keep at it, he can turn back into the same man you married; maybe you need to turn back into the same woman he married. If he is the same man you married, don't expect a change. Men don't tend to make good fixer-uppers.

ask him and if you thinkin he lyin than you take controll and go to somebody that do