I like this guy.. he said he needs time to think about it, because he may go back to his ex gf(who he just broke up with a week go) so i told him to call me when hes figured it out, because i don't want to the other girl.. how long should i wait for him?
by 
Anonymous
ANSWERS: 30
Non Contact Infrared Thermometer -- $19.99
While Supplies Last
13deals
.png)
Ad
-
What part of the US are u from. Is this a guy who works with you?or where did u meet him?
-
Don't be played a fool and be hurt in the process. Best you leave him alone, he most probably still has feelings for his ex. Don't wait for something that is not guaranteed.
-
Like no time at all , This guy is using you as a back up. That is humiliating and undervaluing yourself if you accept that situation. Just tell him YOU have decided that it is a NO go and find another nice guy to like who is not going to use you as a substitute for an EX
-
Well, it all depends on how long you want to wait. If he is unsure about wanting to get back together with his x-gf. I would wonder why he broke up with her in the first place. If he broke up with her a week ago, I would wait a while before you go out with him, because obviously he still has feelings for her. You wouldn't want that to drown your relationship with him. You would be second guessing yourself on if he really likes you, or is he on the rebound, or if he wants to try it out with you, and if he doesn't like it, will he go back to her. Just wait I would say, quite a while before you go out with him. Even if he asks you out, don't say yes right away. Guys usually like what they can't have or someone who is not completely obsessed about them. I think over all you did the right move. Stay away from him until he figures out what to do, but also don't leave yourself short. IF you end up liking another guy while he is figuring things out still, then go for the other guy. If you don't, then you are just selling yourself short.
-
As long as you took to ask this question. You are better than this - don't loose time waiting for someone that doesnt know instantly that he wants to be with you- dont be sloppy seconds. Be number 1 in someones heart (as you should be in your own right now.)
-
Well did he give you any hopes to tell you that he wants to be with you?Do u love this guy?Well you know what im in the similar situation minus him getting back with his ex bc im the ex. He gave me hopes and told me to call him in March.So id wait sweety i feel you and i know it hurts.Dont believe what others say, listen to ur heart and have all the faith and hopes in the world that he will call u with an answer u want to hear. That is what i am doing
-
You should leave this guy alone, he wants you to be his rebound just in case his ex doesn't want him. Find someone new, because he doesn't care about your feelings.
-
Don't wait at all. Continue on with your life. If he contacts you before you've found someone else, good. If not, oh well. You don't want someone who is still hung up on their ex, as he obviously is. It'll just end up being very messy.
-
Why are you even considering waiting around? I give him 2 cents for at least admitting that he still has feelings for his ex.. Great for him. Find someone who wants you and only you.
-
maybe you shouldn't wait for him, maybe you should stay single or find another guy that you like and make him jealous, then he will be looking at you and come to you..and if he asks you out then you should say that i'm nobodies second pick.
-
DO NOT WAIT!!! I have been there and he is telling you to wait just in case she doesn't go back to him. Meaning, he wants to really be with her and is putting you on the back burner! "Time to think about it" is a way to keep you around..don't fall for it!
-
Don't. I agree 100% with Firebrand. Don't be this guy's booty call.
-
were on the same page, but he totally finished with her right now he just want time to know his feelings he said he loves me soo much it just that he is asking for time ..im soo messed up right now..too..same page here..we been together for almost a year now.
-
If they have broken up he's afree man. But by the sounds of him wanting to wat a little too see if he's going to get back together with his ex, it sounds like they didnt actually break up for good. You should just wait until he's ready but if its over a couple of weeks of waiting then just leave it and go on enjoying your life. But if he comes back to you and says that his relationship is over go for it.
-
Needs time to think about it?? What.. Are you going to wait around for someone who isn't even sure if they want to be with you or not?! They shouldn't need time
-
Are you serious? please tell me you are joking. Honey, RUN! Why would you wait for him? Let him be. I know thats not what you want to hear but there are LOTS of guys out there who will make YOU first, not another girl. Maybe he is not meant for you. I wouldn't wait around for a guy eho chooses another girl.
-
This guy is hedging his bets so I think give him the flick and look for somebody who hasn't got so much baggage. If he really cares about you, he should know it right away.
-
Don't wait for him...he's an a$$hole.
-
dont wait, what an ass hole!!! so if he comes back to you you will know you were his second option!!
-
So it depends on whether the g/f wants him back too hey? If she doesn't then you get to be his consolation prize!! Wait around to be second choice?>????
-
Don't wait. Just go about your life as usual. Why should you be his second choice?
-
No time at all...tell him to get lost.
-
Continue with your life. You can find someone who wants you right here and now, who doesn't have to think things through. You and that girl should both move on! If he dumped her then he should be taking time to himself. He sounds like a player! Don't waste your time. You'll only get hurt. Let him realize what he lost in you then tell him it's too late!
-
Don't bother. He's not interested in you.
-
Well it doesn't sound like a good situation. If he is still hung up on his ex, he will always be. And even if he doesn't get back with her right away, whenever she is ready to give him some, he's gonna jump on it. You should just forget about him and find a guy with less drama than that. He's gonna hurt you in the long run.
-
i dont think you should wait for him. you shouldnt be on a waitlist. i think if he really liked you he wouldn't have said what he said. obviously he is not over his ex gf and you should forget about him and move on to someone that won't make you wait...
-
I don't even think you should be thinking right now about getting together with him. Even if he DOES break it off with that g/f for good, it wouldn't be good to start seeing him right after that. You just need to focus on other things & other people. You can find someone else to date.
-
As long as you feel you should, no longer.
-
if the guy wont to go back with his ex fuck him u can do better girl !!!
-
Oh...about another 5 minutes. Respect yourself. Don't put yourself on stand-by for ANYone.
call me Kat RELATED QUESTIONS
Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC