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by Over and Out on April 5th, 2009
If you decide to go out with him ... don't kid yourself that he will be any different with you. If that's what you want, then go for it. If you don't want to be treated that way ... say "No Thanks" and find someone who will respect you.
by Twista on April 5th, 2009
My biggest concern would be his cleanliness and health. Cause if he exchanges body fluids with an army of ppl, then I wouldn't feel like dealing with it. Man it not a piece of reusable toilet paper, so he is not supposed to act like one.
by crazystudent on April 5th, 2009
i think i would give him a chance. but be careful, dont sleep with him for a good while. people can change and mature. I have seen fellas that have been awful to some girls then one comes along and he changes for her.
by kiki02 on April 5th, 2009
you make him wear a condom
by Danilito on April 5th, 2009
Do what you wanna do. Just don't regret it. Now, If you are looking for a steady bf, forget it!
by jallen on April 5th, 2009
go out with him and just dont give him any...
by Yhtomitzlots on April 5th, 2009
If you are the type of person that finds his "bad reputation" to be disagreeable with you, don't date him. Otherwise, you and I both know what he will expect from you. If that's OK, then go for it!
by TheJoker on April 6th, 2009
Either walk away or prepare to become just another notch on his bedpost!
by Anonymous on April 5th, 2009
keep away and find some one else theres plently of men much better.
by AnonymousGirl on April 5th, 2009
I'd probably ask myself what makes me so different than the other girls. Then I'd decide I probably wasn't. Then I'd reject him.
by gtravels loves her life penguin on April 5th, 2009
You run the other way as fast as possible and look for a guy who will actually look at you as something other than a conquest.
by ladyshakespeare on April 5th, 2009
if you want a one night stand, go for it. if you want a man, stay the heck away from that guy. you wont mean anything to him, and i can guarantee you, he tells the others that he likes them too.
by Its still Ridiculous on April 5th, 2009
Think.
Decide what you want.
Maybe even ask what he is expecting.
Tell him what you are expecting.
Proceed if both are willing to do the same thing.
Make sure you have a backup plan if things go awry.
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on April 5th, 2009
in my experience sexual reputation is like credit, even a bad reputation is better than no reputation. I personaly disagree with that mentality, but I am quite unique.
by flowersandthings on April 6th, 2009
DONT GO THERE.
by Corgingus on April 6th, 2009
You and other kids know about he's reputation. Even if nothing happened, other people are going to think differently and your reputation might suffer. Do you really want to go out with someone that has this bad rap? Don't expect much sympathy if something happens should you go out with him.
by Teri on April 5th, 2009
You know his game. It is up to you whether or not you want to play.
by daisychain on April 5th, 2009
Don't be suprised if he doesn't ask you for a second date whether you sleep with him on the first or not.
It can be very tempting for a woman to think she can be the one to change a man like this only to be disappointed.
If you get hurt easily or have low confidence and/or are a sucker for flattery don't bother with him, it sounds like a recipe for disaster to me.
by Treval on April 5th, 2009
It's your choice. Just make him wear a condom, and be prepared for him to treat you the same way.
by FREE83 on November 11th, 2009
Ill go out with him, but I wont kid myself that he would take me seriously!
by Anonymous on October 1st, 2009
I'd be careful. He probably sees you as another potential point on his scoreboard. How interested in this guy are you? +3
by jessica on August 28th, 2009
..go out with him..if he really likes u ..he'll change for u ..if he doesnt ..dump him lol..
by pascaline on August 13th, 2009
Give him a chance and keep your guard up.
by Im BACK on April 17th, 2009
People can change. Does reputation define everything about a person? Do you even know this guy?
Why reject him just because he has a bad repuation? Doesn't he deserve a second chance?
by Ricardo Demarko on April 7th, 2009
So you are worried about getting hurt. I can tell you that in my past I have been with many different women. I got it out of my system and I was ready to settle down with only one person. I have had many many different opportunities to sleep with some gorgeous women and there would be no way that my s/o would find out and I didn’t do it. So what I am trying to say is that he may have a reputation of sleeping around, but if the right person came along he may be perfectly content. It is up to you on whether you want to take a chance or not.
by Butterfly on April 6th, 2009
How do you know that the rumors are true? Everyone deserves at least one chance. If you decide to follow the crowd and believe everything you hear without having done your own research you could be missing out on someone really nice. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. Think about if the shoe were on the other foot--if someone was spreading nasty rumors about you and you knew they wern't true how would you feel if someone decided not to go out with you because of that? Of course, if it is true that's one thing, but I never blindly believe everything I hear.
by bangbang on April 6th, 2009
Give him a chance. But use a condom!
by Angel7 on April 6th, 2009
I would walk away.
by katie7576 on April 6th, 2009
Sleep with him if you want but if you're not into one night stands or flings, walk away. Depends on what you can handle.
by Music Is Life on April 6th, 2009
!!! Run Forrest Run !!!
by tuttifruiti123 on April 6th, 2009
be wary, be very wary. have fun and stay safe but don't throw yourself into a situation that could lead to you getting hurt.
by sexykins20 on April 6th, 2009
avoid him like the plague he cud have stds
by msflower76 on April 6th, 2009
I would tell him straight up why I would say no. But then again, I have really bad judgement when it comes to men, so I'd probably end up dating a worse one!
by Ms.A on April 6th, 2009
I'd run away.
by alfugazi on April 6th, 2009
if you do go out with the dude just be cautious. Dont be so eager to want to please him.
by Ricardo Demarko on April 6th, 2009
Go out with him , but don't have sex with him!!!
by Profile Scheduled for Deletion on April 6th, 2009
If you like him, you have to trust him. A relationship is nothing without trust. But if he breaks that trust, even once, kick him to the curb!
You don't need a cheater!
by hellz angel on April 6th, 2009
jus 'sleepin around' right???... meanz he aint a 'rapist' off sortz... it meanz the gurlz also were 'wiling'... right???... so it jus iz about 'wht the gurl wantz'... if she(yu) wantz it... 'yu get it'... els... 'NOPE'... PERIOD!!!... peace!!!
by AIR_INDIA_says_Wass_Up on April 6th, 2009
Well you do what you think is correct but if he wanna sleep with u , u better not first check does he really likes or he just wanna sleep with u , best of luck :)
by Po etry on April 5th, 2009
If you sleep with him, you have become him and accept to bear all of his past. If he sleeps around, do you actually think he wants a serious relationship? What happens if you sleep with him and then find a nice guy who learns that you slutted around. What if this one experience tarnishes you for life and no one respects you. If you are willing to risk it, then no problem. Me, myself, have always errored on the side of caution because nothing can ever be taken back.
by UneFille on April 5th, 2009
Trust your instinct.
by IDK on April 5th, 2009
Reputations are not always true. But if you like this guy and want to date him, take things slow.
by breezyy on April 5th, 2009
you should give hima chance...but DONT end up his booty call
by Rocket on April 5th, 2009
Hey try it you might like it.... Use protection however so you don't pick up an STD...
by Sunshine on April 5th, 2009
If you are attracted to him, go out with him. Don't sleep with him for a very long time. If he is just trying to play you, he'll get bored after a little while and move onto easier prey!
by LuckyKnickers on April 5th, 2009
Go for it...unless it bothers you that he won't be true. Also you should be appreciative of the fact that he respected you enough to give fair warning....also if hes gunna sleep around so can you
by Corgingus on July 31st, 2009
If he sleeps around a lot he may have STD'S. Why do you think he wants to date you? He wants to add your name to he's collection.
by tookie on July 29th, 2009
There's nothing wrong with going out with him, but be careful. It could be just be a bad rep, and/or he could be in the process of mending his ways. Learn about him before considering having sex with him. Make him get tested. Definitely wear a condom.
by Mokey on July 16th, 2009
My advice would be that if this guy has cheated before he is likely going to do it again. If you do go out with him be careful and watch his behavior. After all actions speak louder then words.
by Anonymous on August 1st, 2009
With that kind of repetation he obviously does not really care about his girl friends. Do not go out with this creep.
How can i tell if he is interested in me?
by Answerbag Staff on February 19th, 2010
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Does she care about me? or not?(I need advice from insightful women)
by RickyRozay on November 28th, 2010
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My boss gets upset when my co-workers flirt with me.Does this mean my boss likes me?
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My boyfriend farted while kissing me.. He laughed about it.. I am a lil mad. what would you do?
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Really need your help. How will I know if she likes me?
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by LoggyBren on April 5th, 2009
Yup, yup, yup.
by daisychain on April 5th, 2009
hmm guess everything is said here
by Taipantheoutlaw on April 5th, 2009
Yea that's what I'm thinking really. I'm absolutely 100% nothing like that, and i told him that and see said oh no don't worry i wasn't expecting anything... but words are cheap.
I know there's way better out there, it's just gonna be awkward coz we work together!!
by jesster on April 5th, 2009
I do hope it works out for you jesster. Maybe if you "refuse", he might realize you're different and treat you differently. I'm sure you'll do the right thing for you. Good luck. It sounds like you are a very nice person.
by Over and Out on April 6th, 2009
It'll be alright in the end. That's a good point, and it's what i might do, but i wanna wait and get to know him better first before seeing if hes worth putting any energy into it.
Thank you! You too! :)
by jesster on April 6th, 2009
You sound like a smart "cookie" jester!! Good for you.
by Over and Out on April 7th, 2009
Thanks you! :)
by jesster on April 7th, 2009
I got DR'd for an opinion ... hilarious!!
by Over and Out on April 18th, 2009
lol weird!
by jesster on April 18th, 2009
It is weird jesster. Oh well.
by Over and Out on April 18th, 2009
now thats just ridiculous! you have one of the best answers! some people really abuse their downrate privileges. i've only downrated someone once and that was because they were ever so rude to another user.
by mozART on July 16th, 2009
I appreciate your comment mozART. I probably shouldn't even mention it, but it never ceases to amaze me what gets DR'd here.
by Over and Out on July 16th, 2009
I agree, i get really put off answerbag sometimes when that happens! Btw, update on the situation, I've now got a new boyfriend who i love to bits and is WAY better suited to me. :)
by jesster on July 17th, 2009
congratulations! on behalf of the answerbag community, we are proud of you! lol but seriously i'm happy you made the right decision!
by mozART on July 17th, 2009
Good for you jesster!
by Over and Out on July 18th, 2009
Yay thank you! :)
by jesster on July 18th, 2009
just because he fucks around a lot does not mean he's incapable of committment and cognition of fidelity.
by SigFreud27 on September 30th, 2009
Good answer Barb +3
by Anonymous on October 1st, 2009
He just wasn't my type really...
by jesster on October 1st, 2009