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by highrider30m on January 12th, 2005

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My wife wants me to be more aggressive and forceful in bed, but this doesn't come naturally to me. What are some specific things I should do?

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  • by Anonymous on March 16th, 2006

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    As the other respondent said- ask her for some examples- you should get an idea and then you can start experimenting. She might just mean she'd prefer you to take the initiative more (decide on when, how and where you do it), she might want you to show a bit of a dominant side by bossing her about a little, use agressive language (be careful, some women get off on being called whores and bitches during sex, others find it demeaning), or placing her in your favourite position, or even requiring her to be your slave for the evening, make her wait at your feet or in the bedroom until you're ready to take your pleasure from her (mmm..). She might have something more specific in mind- she might want you to tie her up, or even spank her. Ask her to tell you one or two fantasies that turn her on and start from there.
    Have fun!

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  • by Patman on January 13th, 2005

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    Ask her. It's probably just a turn on for her, and just like it's not of your nature to be aggressive and forceful, it's not of MY nature to dance, although my girlfriend has been begging me for years to do. Finnaly I just said, "What the hell, let me try it." Now I'm a dancin' fool, and you too, can be the 'Bad Cop' in the bedroom. Just have her give you some input, then get a little creative and roll with it.

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