by JK' on March 28th, 2009

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My ex-best friend told my other friends my worst secret when we broke up from being friends (because she was bitching about me behind my back), yesterday. It's really horrible of her because it was an embarrasing thing. What should i do? :'(

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by Tom Terrific on March 28th, 2009
What you might do depends on what the secret is.

Sometimes you can steal their thunder by admitting whatever it is openly, not trying to hide it. For example, if it's something you wish you hadn't done, then you might say, "Yes, I did it, and I'm not proud of it; but we all make mistakes, and I've learned from mine."
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- erm, i suppose that could work
  you're getting another point from me :)
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by Its still Ridiculous on March 28th, 2009
The best thing you can take from this is the knowledge that you should never tell what you don't want repeated should the worse happen.

I have a best girl friend and a best guy friend and best friends with one of my sisters. But there are some things I dare not tell b/c IF anyone should:

-go crazy and tell everything they think of
-quit being my friend for a valid or invalid reason
-take a bribe once I am elected president of ____
-get jealous b/c I signed a million dollar contract

there are some things I don't want anyone to know eva.
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by Baba on March 28th, 2009
as they say...
Grin and bare it.
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- i get a negative for answering the truth.
  What else can you do?
  nothing except to accept the reality of the situation and move on with your life, hopefully learning something from this.
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by HungryGuy on March 28th, 2009
Borrow Calvin's transmogrifier gun and turn her into a bug?
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- Y'know that makes no sense + really doesn't help ... :|
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- Sorry...
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  by HungryGuy on March 28th, 2009
- Gotta know 'Calvin & Hobbes' for that one, one of my favourite comics, incidentally. :)
  (Along the same vein, JK', can you find anything humorous, at all, even remotely worth a smile, in all of what you're dealing with? Or maybe you will 2 years from now? Or, failing that, just watch your favourite comedy to get your mind off of it.)
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  by Trissinger on March 30th, 2009
- of course i can :)
  i was just really upset at the time :|
  + to be fair i just didnt know what it was :)
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- Gotcha! ;)
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