A 45 min warm-up is not uncommon for me, the Wife and I don't wait to get home for foreplay and warm up because we feel, rub and pinch All day long and it acts as a warm up. If your Really in LOVE then have some pysicle contact whenever your together, put your hands under your gfnd's shirt when you kiss and hold her wiast or back and it will get her started before you get home. The Wife and I seldome wait to get to the bedroom and often tear off clothes right inside the front door!

You should try stimulating her A-spot. It's better than the G-spot. Plan a romantic night. Have her take a bubble bath, eat some chocolate, drink some wine. Rose petals, scented candles, etc. Then, after you've kissed her and carressed her for a while, feel under her panties. If she's wet, insert your middle finger into her vagina, as deep as it'll go. Put it on the ceiling, the wall towards her belly button, right where the wall starts to curve upward (this is the same wall that her G-spot is on). Feel around for a wrinkly spot. That's the A-spot. Push on it as hard and as deeply as you can and make a scooping motion like you're telling someone "come here". Once you feel her getting wetter, move your finger towards her G-spot and stimulate it the same way. Make a repetitive back-to-front motion, stimulating her A-spot, then her G-spot. Once you can tell she's enjoying it, don't change your rhythm. Stay at the same speed. Just keep going till she comes. When she does, be prepared. She might moan very loudly and tremble. Plus, you're stimulating her G-spot, so she'll probably squirt. As she's coming, her vagina will contract. Push against these contractions with your fingers. This will intensify and prolong her orgasm. After it's over, keep stimulating her. Multiple orgasms come quite easily during A-spot stimulation. Practice this technique for 5-10 minutes every day and it will get even easier for her to come. Also, there's one other thing you might want to deal with. She may have personal issues that are holding back her sexuality. She may think that she doesn't deserve to experience sexual pleasure or she may be afraid of losing control. If this is the case, tell her that it's okay to enjoy sex and that it's okay to let go. Tell her that you love her and that you want her to be happy.

get a Hitachi magic wand, pricey but likely worth it and new to the eros world is the female vacuum clit pump spend 45 min. with those and she will break a sweat on her 3rd come somewhere under the first 12 min. and be eye rolling and twitching by 30 min. after that she will be doing the Grand Maul flop, so you might want to have some restraints at hand to get through that last 15 min. penetration is optional.