by bossmam on March 17th, 2009

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I was married in the catholic church and was divorced in 5 yrs due to alcohol abuse. i then married a non catholic 18 yrs ago by justice of the peace.i just came back to the church.may i recieve communion due to my mistake.she attends mass with me

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  • by mysticdeliria on March 19th, 2009

    mysticdeliria

    Technically, no. You would need to have the first marriage anulled and the second marriage blessed. Speak with your priest about what needs to be done, I'm sure he will be more than happy to help you.

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  • by GoldieLocks2 on January 13th, 2011

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    Randoley, the Catholic Church does teach forgiveness as well as the hows and whys of communion. If you want you are welcome to attend Sunday Mass to learn more about the church's teachings. :)

    FORGIVENESS OF SIN (here are biblical verses that the Catholic Church teaches):

    Matthew 6:15: but if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

    Matthew 12:31: Therefore I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven.

    Matthew 18:21-22:Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?" Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.

    Matthew 18:34-35: And in anger his lord delivered him to the jailers, till he should pay all his debt. So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart."

    Mark 11:25: And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against any one; so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses."

    Luke 6:37:"Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven;

    Luke 7:47: Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven, for she loved much; but he who is forgiven little, loves little."

    Luke 11:4:and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation."

    Luke 17:4:and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, and says, `I repent,' you must forgive him."

    John 20:21-23: Jesus said to them again, "Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, even so I send you." And when he had said this, he breathed on them, and said to them, "Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained."

    Acts 2:38:And Peter said to them, "Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.

    Acts 10:43: To him all the prophets bear witness that every one who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name." :

    Colossians 3:13: forbearing one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive

    Hebrews 9:22: Indeed, under the law almost everything is purified with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness of sins.

    James 5:14-15:Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord; and the prayer of faith will save the sick man, and the Lord will raise him up; and if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.

    1 John 1:9: If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just, and will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

    COMMUNION: (The Eucharist)
    Exodus 16:14-15: And when the dew had gone up, there was on the face of the wilderness a fine, flake-like thing, fine as hoarfrost on the ground. When the people of Israel saw it, they said to one another, "What is it?" For they did not know what it was. And Moses said to them, "It is the bread which the LORD has given you to eat.


    Matthew 26:26-28: Now as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and blessed, and broke it, and gave it to the disciples and said, "Take, eat; this is my body." And he took a cup, and when he had given thanks he gave it to them, saying, "Drink of it, all of you; for this is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.


    (**NOTE - The Eucharist is a communal meal, a sacrificial meal, a memorial meal, and a sin-forgiving meal, according to Jesus.)


    John 6:53-58, 66-67 : "So Jesus said to them, 'Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you have no life in you; he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. For my flesh is food indeed, and my blood is drink indeed. He who eats my flesh and drinks my blood abides in me and I in him. As the living Father sent me, and I live because of the Father, so he who eats me will live because of me. This is the bread which came down from heaven, not such as the fathers ate and died; he who eats this bread will live forever.' After this many of his disciples drew back and no longer went about with him. Jesus said to the twelve, 'Will you also go away?'"


    1 Corinthians 11:27 : "Whoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of profaning the body and blood of the Lord."


    Luke 24: 28-31: So they drew near to the village to which they were going. He appeared to be going further, but they constrained him, saying, "Stay with us, for it is toward evening and the day is now far spent." So he went in to stay with them. When he was at table with them, he took the bread and blessed, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him; and he vanished out of their sight.


    P.S. As for the original question, no you cannot take communion because you are committing the sin of adultery in the Church's eyes, BUT the good news is you should be able to get an annullment if the alcohol abuse is related to a mental disorder/illness. Talk to your priest at your local parish (church) to help you in resolving your dilemma. Good Luck and God Bless!!

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  • by ImaCatholic2 on March 20th, 2009

    ImaCatholic2

    Not yet.

    First receive the sacrament of Reconciliation, tell the priest your story and then do as he recommends.

    I suggest you look into having your first marriage declared null.

    With love in Christ.

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  • by Randoley on March 17th, 2009

    Randoley

    Why don't you leave the controlling Catholic church and find a faith that understand forgiveness and repentance. A church that teaches it's members how to have a personal relationships with God. A church that will help people get over past mistakes without bashing them over the head and saying, "You aren't worthy enough". Of course you should be able to have communion Jesus said, "When ever you do this, do it in remembrance of me." He gave no more instruction on how and why communion was to be done. He also allowed Judas to participate, then why can't you. Denying people communion is just another way of scaring people and keeping them under control. I say again, Go find a faith that will love you and not try to control you by fear and man made rules.

  • by roiboysatx on August 5th, 2009

    roiboysatx

    no priest will deny you communion unless they know for a fact you went through the divorce. according to the church you aren't supposed to receive communion. if you actually divorced because of alcohol abuse you can probably get an official annulment from the church. will cost you a few hundred dollars. i went through the same thing. divorced and when i remarried like you did my ex went through the process of getting an annulment. and there was no alcohol abuse or anything like that involved and they granted a annulment.

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  • by Leah on August 5th, 2009

    Leah

    They do not deny any one from coummunon anymore. At least not at my Pairsh, I am sure if you explain the reason for your divorce you will have no problem getting it blessed. If you left and came back, then the divorced wouldn't even be recognize really.
    People at my church split because of adultry and they still get communion.

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