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by PPurple on February 9th, 2007

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My husband has told me I give the best blowjobs he has ever had. That the other women he was with could not make him cum doing it. I feel like he is comparing me to other women and it makes me feel insecure.Should he even mention other women he has had?

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  • by altgirl84 on February 11th, 2007

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    Well I think in this case it's a good comparison obviously. The man I'm with has said this as well, that I've given him the best BJ's (as well as not being able to cum with the other women from their BJ's) than any other women and I know it's been quite a few. For me it's incredibly flattering.

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  • by sppb76 on February 10th, 2007

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    I think you should take it as a compliment. You are obviously going something for him that no other woman has, you are pleasuring him orally to the point or orgasm. I know it is not always nice to hear about past relationships, but I think the context of this is something you should think about and take as a compliment.

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  • by joebud on March 30th, 2008

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    In his eyes, he is paying you a huge compliment. I would not feel insecure. He's attempting to be open and honest. Also, If he said it right after he came, its absolute truth. (Pre-orgasm comments = lies to get sex, post-orgasm comments = statements of relative truth, followed by sleep)

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  • by American idle on February 22nd, 2007

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    He thinks he's giving you the BIGGEST compliment EVER. Men are like that, you know.

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  • by JC85cap on May 7th, 2009

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    He meant it to be a compliment. I don't like it when women talk about their exes or compare me to other guys in bed, so I don't talk about that stuff either. Maybe your husband isn't sensitive to the topic and that's why he may think that everyone doesn't care about past sexual partners. IDK. That's my guess.

    The truth is he is giving you a huge compliment. Treat it like an ego boost.

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  • by KIDDPOOH on March 29th, 2008

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    WELL FROM A MANS STAND POINT AND HAVING SAID THAT TO MY WIFE. BUT I TOLD HER TO DO IT BETTER THAN MY EX DID WITCH IS ALMOST IMPOSSABLE. THE PROBLEM WITH THAT STATEMENT WAS SHE KNEW THAT FROM A PREVIOUS CONVERSATION THIS DIDNT SIT WELL WITH HER. MY INTENTIONS WERE TO STIR UP SOMETHING IN HER TO GET HER TO DO IT BETTER THAN MY EX OR TRY. FROM EXPERIENCE IN PASS RELATIONSHIPS IVE FOUND A WOMEN JUST WANTS TO BE BETTER THAN YOUR EX IN EVERYTHING SHE DOESNT WANT TO BE TOLD THAT TO THAT GIVE THE IMPRESION SHE ISNT ALREADY (A PROBLEM) IN YOUR CASE FIND OUT HOW GOOD THE EX WAS DONT JUST ASUME YOUR BETTER BECAUSE HE TOLD YOU YOU CAN FIND OUT BY ASKING HIM WHAT HE LIKED ABOUT WHAT SHE DID IF HE ANSWERS WITH SOMETHING YOU HAVNT DONE HE MAY BE STROKING YOUR EGO A LITTLE BUT DONT TAKE IT AS DISRESPCT IN ANY FORM. LIKE POINTEMAN SAID WE ARNT GIVING YOU THAT MUCH POWER IF YOU DONT DESERVE IT BUT BE CAREFUL OF THE EGO STROKERS. ITS LIKE WHEN A WOMEN SAYS YEA I CAM OR SHES LOUDER THAN NORMAL BECAUSE SHE SEES YOUR TRYING TO COME OUT HER BACK BUT ARNT REALLY GETTING IT HER SITTING THERE LIKE YOUR NOT DOING ANYTHING WOULDNT BE COOL NOW WOULD IT OK IM TALKED OUT (JUST KEEP KNODING YOUR HEAD TO THE BEAT AND YOUR BE OK) KIDDPOOH.

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  • by Pointeman1 on December 27th, 2007

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    If he's making such a statement then you've got absolutely no reason to feel insecure. The time to start being concerned is when he DOES NOT compare you to other women and say you're the best. I believe he truly meant it as a real compliment. We guys don't make such declarations out loud without being very sincere about them. You're both lucky to have each other.

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  • by Craig_Lyon on January 25th, 2010

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    If he is talking in general about all other women then he is complimenting you saying you are the best. I know it might make you feel like he is comparing, but in this case you are the one who wins the comparison. I do think it is unfair for him to compare you to other women though. If he only mentioned this once then that is fine, but if he constantly mentions it then it is clear he is thinking about other women and this is bad. It shouldn't matter either whether you were the best at it or not, the fact is you love him enough to do it and you are with him now and this should be good enough.

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  • by mukti4455 on January 28th, 2010

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    Your husband is lucky. My wife never give me a blowjob. When I was twentieth, my girl friend ever and often gave me blowjobs. So far I never told to my wife about it. I have married. I don't try to to find a blowjob from another woman. I think you are actually the best.

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  • by A on September 27th, 2009

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    He may be saying it as a compliment, or he may just be trying to make it sound good. Whenever my last boyfriend said something like that to me, I always felt like he was just trying to make me feel better about myself, but didn't actually mean it. Can you relate? No, I don't think it's a good comparison, no matter what anyone else thinks. He IS comparing you to other women, letting you know about it, and even thinking about the difference. While it's normal to compare, it's not exactly the nicest thing to tell your s/o about, even if it's a compliment. I'm not him and I probably will never talk to him, but I personally think he should have kept his mouth shut about that, just like I think my ex should have as well. He could've just left it at "I'm very pleased and satisfied with the BJ's you give me...and this is why...etc etc" without even bringing the other women into it.

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  • by Anonymous on January 10th, 2010

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    A good compliment but a great compliment wouldn't have mentioned the other women. I would suggest letting that one go.

    A wise man knows not to mention previous partners to the current one.

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  • by rtdfrmr on June 24th, 2011

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    How did you learn to discount yourself and any compliments that you get? Someone did you a HUGE disfavor by teaching you that you are undeserving.

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