by Anonymous on March 11th, 2009

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I cheated on my bf kissed another guy...not on the lips but passionately but i felt i had to (not cheat but kiss) because the guy was getting mad. I told my bf but I still feel awful what should i do? The other guy is treating me like a total slut.

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by Moonbeam on March 11th, 2009
You kissed him because he was getting mad and you thought he would hurt you? If that's the case, then your boyfriend should understand. I wouldn't worry about how the guy is treating you if you were so scared of him that you kissed him. Stay away from him!
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by Anonymous on March 11th, 2009
again it was my question....no you are right and my boyfriend was very angry. This happened over a month ago. But the guy has twisted the whole thing round so it looks like i seduced him..because he was going through a bad break-up (which I helped him through, as we talked about it for weeks before this even happened). But I didnt seduce him. Because im not like that.
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by Anonymous on March 11th, 2009
erm...again I wrote the comment...and no i did not give any blow job. I just caressed his neck ...i guess if you can call it that
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- Ok. Still trying to sort out what you mean. So you kissed his neck? In a passionate way? That would make sense. You don't say what your boyfriend's reaction was. If he is ok with it, there shouldn't be a problem, you should just put it behind you. And if the person you kissed is treating you badly, you need to stand up for yourself. It sounds as though you allowed yourself to be used. Some people do have a submissive streak, and if that is true in your case, then you need to make sure that you are aware at all times that other people do not and should not have power over you. It is up to you to choose the person you wish to submit to.
  
  Anyway, I have probably got the wrong end of the stick, so feel free to ignore this. :)
  
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- My boyfriend was very upset, and i didnt want to go into details with about what happened.
  
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by Prunesquallor on March 11th, 2009
You kissed him passionately, but not on the lips? Does that translate to 'I gave him a blow job'?
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by Anonymous on March 11th, 2009
..hey i asked the question...it was not because i thought he would hurt me...but because i felt bad for him..he had tried to kiss me before and i shoved him off, I felt I had lead him on, though I dont know If I I did. The whole thing was awkward, I want to be able to get passed it. I am working through things with my bf but I have lost the friend I thought I had in this guy. And he is acting as though I seduced him.
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I cheated on my bf kissed another guy...not on the lips but passionately but i felt i had to (not cheat but kiss) because the guy was getting mad. I told my bf but I still feel awful what should i do? The other guy is treating me like a total slut.

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