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by Anonymous on March 10th, 2009

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My wife had an affair with my brother 6 years ago and I can't get past it. Since then we have separated & got back together. We renewed our vows in 2007 and 4 months later I found out she had slept with 2 others since the renewal. We have 2 kids, help?

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  • by Ditto on March 11th, 2009

    Ditto

    Damn. She's not the person for you. She's a selfish tramp. You should end it and move on the kids will be fine. Try to take custody if you'd like but if they stay with her be sure to be a part of their lives.

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  • by emamamma on March 11th, 2009

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    First, take time to see if you wanna continue the relationship. If you REALLY do, talk. Talk to her. FInd out why she's cheating. IT may be hard to hear, but if there are things you could be doing, then, you need to see if you're willing to do them. My husband & had had similar problems. We had even spoke to divorce lawyers. We sat down, ACTUALLY talked, and brought to light a LOT of issues we otherwise would not have discussed. This was 4 years ago, and since then, we have been happier that we have EVER been. We are now, (the way most people are when they first get married), we FINALLY are. It will probably take changing on both your parts, but if you are BOTH, willing to make the necessary changes, YOU CAN STILL have a happy marriage. First you have to do some soul searching. Just DO NOT stay together for the kids. DO it for yourselves. You just have to make sure you and she REALLY talk. No holds barred, hold nothing back. Your problems won't get solved if you don't talk about EVERYTHING, and do it HONESTLY.
    Good luck to you and yours. Hope my experience can help you.

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  • by mr. Bill on March 10th, 2009

    mr. Bill

    Face it your wife is a whore. Are the kids yours. I believe I would get a dna. Get out of the hell you are in then kick your brothers ass.

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  • by Susie24 on November 4th, 2011

    Susie24

    Just give her space, when she comes home worship her !

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