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by Anonymous on March 8th, 2009

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I just found out I'm expecting & my bf's ex flipped out. He thought they were getting along for their son's sake but in light or recent events, I think she was secretly kissing up b/c she thought that they'd get back together. Why else would she do that?

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  • by chiism1 is gone 4 good on March 8th, 2009

    chiism1 is gone 4 good

    That's what happened to me, she tries to pull him away every second she can using the other kid, she doesn't even want him, just control of him, she isn't even there or is leaving to see her boyfriend when I drop him off for visitation, she won't allow the girl to leave her grandparent's house, she did the same thing until she found out I was pregnant, then she claimed she was to, then claimed she had a misscarriage and a whole load of drama since to try to get me to leave him, good luck on that drama, it never ends

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  • by Little big mouth on March 8th, 2009

    Little big mouth

    All I can say from experience is that my former husband told me 10 years after our divorce that he wanted to reconcile even though he had a g/f. Start paying closer attention to what he says to her, how often he takes her out for lunch when the child is in school, etc. She might be a nut but he may be part of the reason

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  • by BeenThereWillShare on March 8th, 2009

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    She may be upset that another child will take attention away from her own child, which it probably will. She might even be thinking of all the little "extras" that she might be losing, dollar wise, as having a new baby will be expensive and more will be spent on the baby.

    She is also jealous because you are the new girlfriend. That's a normal reaction--happens all the time. She doesn't want to see him happy. It's a wonder she hasn't tried to cause trouble already.

    Whatever you do, try to avoid putting him in the middle. Be civil to his ex. He will respect you more for it. Let her be a bitch--it will only cause him to push her away.

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  • by anddeb on March 8th, 2009

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    She is upset because you are not going to want him to give to her baby and give more to your baby. She depends on his child support and the jealously will come from you as time goes on and she is already dreading it.

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  • by Nod.Coltsfan on March 8th, 2009

    Nod.Coltsfan

    You are probably right on there. Odds are she wanted to get back together for herself and her sons sake. Losing ones family is quite difficult.

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