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by girliegirlie on February 6th, 2007

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The guy I'm casually seeing has been seeing somebody a lot longer but she never gives him sex. My sex with him is amazing and we also do things what couples do, e.g., kissing in the street, hold hands, dinner, emails, presents. What can I do? I want him

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  • by Anonymous on February 24th, 2007

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    You already realize that this man is a liar. He's lying to his "other" girlfriend about where he is when he's with you, and allowing her to believe that she's the only woman in his life. What makes you think he's being honest with you? Furthermore, if he DID leave this woman for you, do you really want to be with a man who cheats and lies to his girlfriend - especially when that girlfriend is now YOU? You deserve a man who is commited to YOU, and YOU alone. Ditch this loser, FAST, before you get even more attached to him.

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  • by -O-uknow on February 24th, 2007

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    Obviously you don't care that he's dishonest and using you for sex without commitment. While comitted to another. You have him. Only not exclusively and you never will. Unwittingly you have defined the nature of any relationship with him.

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  • by girliegirlie on November 27th, 2007

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    Wow this has been so long ago already. I have already left him. He disappeared and reappeared. I ran away. He engaged with that girl a month later. Lucky me. Can't imagine being with a cheater like that for the rest of my life. Will be a disaster cuz now I'm damn sure he'll cheat again.

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  • by Anonymous on July 12th, 2008

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    I usually would say that a guy who has a girlfriend already would want his girlfriend instead of you if his with her, but if he's buying you presents and yall are doing what couples do than he definitly wants you and will break up with his girlfriend eventually.

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  • by master101 on December 14th, 2007

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    dont do what davidhume says guys dont like talking about their feelings

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  • by APACHEmeansENEMY on November 27th, 2007

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    how do you know she never gives him sex? did she tell you, or did he? "my wife never gives me sex" is one of the most common excuses a person uses to cheat..sure doesnt mean its the truth. what can you do? you can accept the fact that you are the "other woman" or you can have some self respect and find a man who isnt attached.

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  • by DavidHume on February 6th, 2007

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    Try talking honestly and openly to him about your needs and desires. Good luck!

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  • by bem0514 on February 26th, 2007

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    I do not agree with most of the earlier responses. If your relationship with this man is "casual", then it is on a "as time permits" basis. I would assume that the "somebody" is in a similar relationship of "casual" status. It is unfair for you to assume that he is a dog as I think he has been honest with you. Where I think you are is that you want to be the number 1 girl (first) and the "only" girl (next). That level of commitment has not yet taken place and you will need to explore that carefully with him. I do not see him as a dog, a liar, etc. I have been where he is, you will need to find out if YOU can be the only one in his life. You may be surprised at what his situation really is and where you really stand.

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  • by filthydoll on November 27th, 2007

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    he gets what he wants to you.
    and he doesn't to this other girl that is why he is seeing her more hoping to score.

    this man your dating is somewhat a player.

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  • by fluffylucy on August 2nd, 2010

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    you already have him, or at least a part of him that you like. what can you do - enjoy what you have. possessing him could get you more than you bargain for.

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