I am a Christian, and live my life according to the Bible. I have seen a girl I would like to get to know better. She knows my name but she is not giving me any room to know her. How can I make myself known to her?
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cepho much
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Well, if you really want to follow the Bible, you will have to get your parents to ask her parents if you can date her. That's how they handled things back in Biblical times. See Judges 14:1-3 and Genesis 24:1-4.
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Do something nice for her, like give her a b-day present or ask her for help (i.e. say your moms/freinds/sisters/cousins birthday is coming up, and you have NO idea what to get her).
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I assume you mean that you prefer to remain chaste until marriage. This is wonderful! Girls nowadays don't need to feel pressured to jump into bed with every guy they date. If you met this girl at church, continue to go to church functions, and she will soon get to know you without your doing anything but being there. When the time is right, she'll pay more attention to you. When she does, ask her out. If you met her outside of church, just call her or walk up to her and ask her if she wouldn't mind going to church with you to a particular church event, such as a Christian concert. If she reacts negatively to your mention of church or Christian singing groups, you may not want to pursue the relationship, no matter how nice she is. If you see that she is interested, this will also give you common ground for conversation. I admire the fact that you are willing to stand up for your beliefs and not compromise. God be with you!
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You know, I think you said it quite well here on the forum, why don't you ask her just like you just asked us? Interested in you in a "getting to know each other better" sort of way or not, I am sure she'd respect your directness and honesty.. I know I for one would at the very least listen to you and take you seriously if you were to say this to me. Good luck!
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Go over to her and introduce yourself. Ask her what she does for fun and discuss current events and see if you have things in common.
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I am a christian too and i believe that it aint a sin too try and to be friends/Girlfriend with someone. Then what you do after frienship comes usually after a year or so. I have been great friends with a girl and then we hooked up for a lil wile but then i decided not to go along with it. But enough about me i hope i goes all sweet for ya and hope it works out! Hope I Helped!
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I am a born again believer myself. the best way to meet a girl that you like can be done 3 different ways. 1. her friends point you out to her. 2. just ask God for help.....he wants to have a relationship with you and by asking him would be better help then asking random people online. 3. work up the stinking courage to walk up, say,"Hi, I'm ____, and after hearing you laugh and smile I wanted to be friends with you". Thats how I got my first girl friend right from my own youth group. I was 16 at the time and I wish I had the touch back then like I do now. Listen to Toby Mac, "I'm for You" and think about the song and if what it says is how you feel about her, if not.....move along man!
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Do something unusual in public and make sure she can c u. Make sure itz something u'd want 2 do and make sure it is not DRT.
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I know that this is an old question and may not be an issue for cepho much now, but the principles apply more widely. If all else fails, try the Sermon on the Mount. Matthew 5:14-16: Let your Christian personality shine in the way you act and the things you say. Of course, you can strike up a conversation or two with her and, without being preachy or 'holy', steer the chat toward what's important to you. If she's spiritual, she will appreciate this type of talk and respond positively. If not, you have learned something valuable about her. If she is spiritual but shows no interest in you personally, i'd suggest continue living your life well and let her see by your conduct who you are. Nothing happens in secret. Then follow Matt 6:33: Keep seeking first the Kingdom and everything else will be added to you. Hope it all works out.
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Does being a Christian reall have to dictate how you can approach this girl, also if she turns out not to be a christian or indeed relegious at all are you still going to be interested in spending time with her. Aside from this I have found in my experience that women are often as nervous and shy at the prospect of talking to a guy they don't know as you will be going up to talk to her for the first time, just smile introduce yourself and ask her if she would like to go for a coffee.
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i read your question, SO SORRY , can't think of an answer besides this: why don't you just ask her out, or have a friend do it for you, SORRY i can't give you an answer that relates to "the special book" i'm a christian to, but my church says i shall never mention the name of the:"holy book"keep praying, thats all i can say, GOOD LUCK
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Here's one Christian way to do it, according to the Bible, so nobody can argue with me on that: Deuteronomy 21:11-13 - And seest among the captives a beautiful woman, and hast a desire unto her, that thou wouldest have her to thy wife; Then thou shalt bring her home to thine house, and she shall shave her head, and pare her nails; And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife. Amen! Gotta love the Bible, it even gives you dating advice...
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I don't understand what the first part of your question has to do with the second part.
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You could start a conversation with her and ask her if she dates. Go from there. Keep it simple, maybe out for ice cream or a walk. Maybe she would feel more comfortable having a day date rather than evening. Good Luck.
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Jesus Christ! Walk up and talk to her. Tell her that you'd like to get to know her, and ask her out to coffee or something. You'll get your answer. I don't recall the Bible saying anything about pussy footing around.
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pray pray and pray I guess...doesn't that solve most christian problems?
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man just ask her what her prob is man i mean come on just cause your a christian this girl dont want to talk to u. man i know you "pain" but hey dude she might not b the one. pray bout it and listen to god and not your heat for it will lead you to whicked things. b carefull dude k
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Pray on it mate. YAHWEH will give you the guidance you seek. I'd enjoy chatting to you. Add me on msn at das_boot90@hotmail.com May YAHWEH richly bless you!
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Thou needseth to hault from being such a pussyeth and talketh to the young maiden. For the Lord gaveth you balls, and inside the balls the Lord bequeathed unto you, thou shall findeth courage and bravery.
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Just take it slow and continue to have casual converstation and pray .If it meant ot be it will, and if it not then just enjoy the conversation.
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OK - You're a Christian and live your life according to the Bible - awesome! Why not pray about your question? I mean who better to go to than God right? After all ask enough and it will be given to you - I believe that is why they say "Be careful what you pray for". God Bless
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