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by gracescotland on March 3rd, 2009
Yes, even if she did kiss him she has the right to say no. She should report it to the police or if she doesn't want to make sure she at least sees a doctor.
by Hypocrisy_Central on September 3rd, 2009
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. This is a classic example why one should remain fuller in their own faculties. Too allow yourself to be do drung or stone you have no ability to escape, avoid, or prevent any adverse situsation is just plain stupid. Technically it would fall on him but actually she is just as guilty if there was any guilt to be had anyhow.
by AKW on March 9th, 2009
Yes, NO means NO. It doesn't matter if the women was a prostitute.
by Eltinwe has a life Swan - DYOH on March 9th, 2009
Of course it is. Why did she drop the charges?
by dreams always come true on March 9th, 2009
one word me friend, YES.
by Anonymous on March 3rd, 2009
Yes it was rape
by Anonymous on March 3rd, 2009
Yes, it was, and it needs to be immediately reported.
by lea on March 3rd, 2009
Yes, it is rape.
by Happy-Dance on March 3rd, 2009
yes..she needs to report this to the police now!!!!
by angel911 on January 26th, 2011
no means no, so it is rape. i question why any girl would get so drunk at a party and not expect bad things to happen. females have to take responsibility for their actions, too. If she was that drunk she really doesnt know what she said and what happened.
by PhantomOne on July 13th, 2010
No means no!
by roiboysatx on August 29th, 2009
yes it was rape. but the fault lies with her just as much. she drank too much and she kissed back but was saying no. that is why some rape cases are so cloudy. was it rape or not. she did say no, so a man should understand that, but her actions spoke louder than her words. thats a gray area.
by Kingpinn on June 24th, 2009
Definately rape. When someone is intoxicated, they are incapable of giving consent.
by Bossyk on July 2nd, 2009
Yes it is rape and Kingpinn is on the nail when alcohol enters the picture that takes consent out of the equation. The young girl needs help and support. It needs to be reported as soon as possible and the young girl will need counselling support, a rape kit done as well as STD testing and the morning after pill if the rapist did not use protection. The rapist needs to be stopped so do not let your young friend make you swear to secrecy and not report the incident as this can often compound the victims ability to psychologically deal with the situation. You will hurt her more by attempting to bury the situation if she asks you to say no and tell your parents and ask for their help in getting help for your friend. This young man aka rapist will continue to rape until he is caught.
by fluffylucy on July 9th, 2010
if she said no and he ignored her, of course its rape. her kissing back and her being a virgin has no bearing on the matter.
First I think rape is wrong, but if it wasn't, how many guys would like to take it and be turned on having to take it, instead of it given?
by umcsteve on September 30th, 2011
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3 weeks ago i got raped in my own house by my 4 older brothers' close friend, aged 29. what should i do ????????????
by girlaged20 on September 2nd, 2011
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What would you do if you were raped in the toilet?
by lia8888 on October 13th, 2011
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How would you feel if you were raped?
by lia8888 on September 1st, 2011
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Is a person that falsely cries rape as bad as a rapist?
by RandomRainy on October 17th, 2011
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You're reading My friend was very drunk at a party and an older guy brung her in a room and had sex with her. Yes, she was kissing back, but she said no to sex. he still did it. She was a virgin, and she got up bloody and hurt and ran to a friends place. Was this rape?
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by Joy to the world on March 3rd, 2009
She did go to the hospital that night since her friend told her mom and her mom did the motherly thing to do and so on. She did also file a police report and went to court, but they dropped the charges. Even though the guy is 22 and shes 16 so just that alone is illegal. Virginia laws are SHIT.
by stay glazed on the haze on March 3rd, 2009
Yeah, that is definetly wrong!! Wow, they should'a incarserated him!
by Joy to the world on March 3rd, 2009
That's horrible but sadly really commonplace. Rape is a difficult crime to prove and the courts/ law enforcement often don't treat the victims with the respect and compassion they deserve.
by gracescotland on March 3rd, 2009
:(
by Joy to the world on March 3rd, 2009
Are you sure its illegal the age thing? Most people falsely believe the age of conscent to be 18, but in most states its 16.
by Anonymous on March 3rd, 2009
I think it's 18, there is a close age exception when your with a partner who is also under the age of 18.
by gracescotland on March 3rd, 2009