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Janie
ANSWERS: 12
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Filed for divorce.:)
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Yes..... left him....
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yea found out after we broke up so i didnt do much
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walked in the bedroom while all was going on. been there done that. hurt my feelings.slept in spare room until i could move.
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Yes..I told her I had been smoking weed the past 2 years (she didn't know) so she tried to spin the whole thing like what I did was worse. She just kissed a couple guys but THAT'S CHEATING.
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Yes. Walked out and the next day I filed for divorce :)
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Yes, I was pregnant with my third child at the time. I told him in a calm manner that I wasn't as stupid as he thought and asked him to admit the cheating. He did. I told him I understood that everyone makes mistakes. Then I told him I would give him a week to decide what he'd like to do. At four days I couldn't take the waiting and told him to decide whether he was staying or going. He ended things with her when she suggested he leave me and bring the kids. (She couldn't have children) That was almost 30 years ago. I stayed married to the jerk (BIG MISTAKE) for another 20 years. In hindsight...I should have left him then and just toughed out single motherhood. I never loved him as I should have loved a husband after that and well...it was a lousy marriage I stayed in for the kids. Now I think we all would have been happier if I had left him.
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Yes, I left. I knew I could not trust him. It was embarrassing. We owned a store in a mall.He was hanging out w/weird people, acting like a total ass. That went on for a few weeks before I realized he was cheating. Then he just plain started treating me bad. Totaly out of character. So I left. Moved out in one day. He still worked at the store as my employee (he got the house). About a year after divorce I found out the real deal was drugs - meth. Then I had to fire him. Along w/1/2 the crew. At Christmas time! Yeah 6 days 'til Christmas and I had a skeleton crew running my store in the mall. Working 90 hr wks. It was hell. Not to mention how bad I felt for having to fire them all. Update: He got rehabbed and became a drug and alcohol counsellor. But the meth and all that goes w/it (women)took him 10 yrs to hit bottom. We are still best friends. We had made the promise the night before we got married to always be friends no matter what. I had to divorce him and fire him. But I stayed true to my first promise of friendship. But even that was hard. You know what I mean if you know about meth people.
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Yep... Questioned her... Accepted her answers... Forgave her... Was with her five more years (And the breakup wasn't because of the cheating).
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First of all it hurts so bad to know that the person you love has been with another rather it involved sex or not, there are so many ways to cheat besides sex. My first husband cheated on me with many other women I mean the whole 9 yards. I finally divorced him and he eventually did the same to wife #2 and #3.
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Just in college. I liked her dating wise, but then found out she was giving bj's to half the campus. Dumped her pretty quickly.
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I have, and it was on Valentines day that the other girl phoned me to ask if I knew about her! I wanted to forgive him, but in the end they got married, and they are very happy!
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