My husband will not stop talking to another woman behind my back he says they are just friends he says he does not have feelings for her but why wont he stop talking to her and move on ( this was my best friend this girl) i have cought him several times

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• what kind of feelings do you think if this has been going on for 4 years

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  by TimmynStacy on February 23rd, 2009

• I was thinking the same thing baysider but when i ask him he says he does not have feelings for her. if he does why wont he tell me why does he lie.....i want nothing more then for him to move on and never do it again i thought he was stronger and loves me more then that I just wish i knew the truth

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  by TimmynStacy on February 23rd, 2009

• Wow, 4 years is a long time. I can't say exactly how he feels but, here are some questions: Does he treat her differently than anyone else, or are there other people, including male friends with whom he speaks to as, or more regularly? Does he hide the fact that he speaks to her, knowing that it hurts you? If he does not have feelings for her, why would he risk hurting you, in order to talk to her?
   
  I think he wants to do the right thing, which is being faithful to you, staying with his family but he is struggling because he, at some point in the past, established a connection that he and/or she can't let it go.

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  by Bee on February 24th, 2009

• thank you baysider your answer makes alot of sense...yes he hides the fact that he talks to her I have to catch him he will not just tell me. I just caught him on tuesday of last week at the park talking to her on my way to have lunch with him he has gone a year without talking to her feb 2008 to feb 2009 she just showed up at his work on tuesday i think he can let go but she will not let him i hope the showing up at work was the truth i kind of believe him about that, i asked him why he just didnt say to leave instead of going to the park and he said he dont know. I love this man will all my being i have been married to him for 11 years I was only 16, I know I want to be with him

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  by TimmynStacy on February 24th, 2009

• The fact that he hasn't talked to her in over a year does show that he is trying to do the right thing. Hang in there.

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  by Bee on February 24th, 2009

• thanks

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  by TimmynStacy on February 24th, 2009

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• Yeah me too. thanks for your answer. why do you think he cant let go and move on.

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  by TimmynStacy on February 23rd, 2009

• I dont know. It is very wrong of him to do. I mean SoOOOOOOO NOT ok it makes me so angry. Not that he talks to another woman, that it upsets you and he refuses to not stop talking to her.

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  by Jane on February 23rd, 2009

• you are just a sweetie thank you so much i can tell you care for others and not just yourself :)

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  by TimmynStacy on February 23rd, 2009

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• Its sad to here that a lot of women is going through what im going through as of right now.
  I done fucked up things in past, like talking with my ex and male friends I had feelings for and my fiance found out few times and told me he no longer wants to be with me. It was horrible, I couldn't sleep or eat....I was so depressed and I lost 50 pounds in total 3 months cause I was upset with myself. It's hard when your living in the same house after that I said my sorry and I have been faithful every since. 5th month we go back together, and now he is talking with females behind my back....I told him to stop talking with her..he told he he has....I check his phone record he talks to her all the time and the worst part is he told me he has feelings for her and I told him I want to meet her if she is only just a friend he ignores me and tries to jump off the subject Nd tries to bring up my past....so that tells me he never forgave me because if he did he would more on Maybe pay back is a bitch

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  by emtional on March 23rd, 2012

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