by mckanard on January 31st, 2007

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How can i learn to talk dirty to my man during sex? Are there and good websites?

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  • by anonymous on February 1st, 2007

    anonymous

    You should really be comfortable with talking dirty to your partener and know what they like.

    Here are two pretty good sites:
    http://www.sexinfo101.com/as_talkingdirty102.shtml

    http://sexuality.about.com/od/talkingwithpartners/ht/dirtytalk.htm

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  • by kourageous kitty on June 26th, 2008

    kourageous kitty

    I have no idea, but when you find out will you teach me. lol.

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  • by Kizz miazz on January 29th, 2008

    Kizz miazz

    It's not only what you say but also when you say it.

    The word cunt would be a terrible word unless used at a certain time that would be more appropriate in context. Although some women can never get accustomed to hearing or using it.

    Think of it more as a dialouge in a movie. It can describ the action or become a direction for the action. Even a question and answer.

    For instance:
    Q&A: Q-Do you want to eat this pussy A- oh yes.
    Your part: then do it baby, eat it, lick it, I want to feel your tongue on my clit.

    Think of it as a script to a movie or play.

    Talking is communication. By saying things it gives people cues as to what to do next instead of always having to guess.

    Not talking dirty is like having sex with the lights off.

    The words; "do you want me" at the beginning of sex become more like; "do you to fuck me" as foreplay is getting you ready for intercourse. He can then decide to do it or tease you more in which even more dirty talk can be involved.

    Although some times a slow quiet love making session could be in order.

    Change the script and improvise differently each time.

    To me the ultimate sex is one that if you played back would be something like a work of art. Even a black and white silent movie can be as entertaining as a loud raucous smash-em up movie, I love both and everything in-between.

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  • by hemiman on February 1st, 2007

    hemiman

    You have to learn that?

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  • by Mastodon on June 26th, 2008

    Mastodon

    Watch porn

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  • by purplecows on June 26th, 2008

    purplecows

    get an English-to-Dirty dictionary?

    google a few obvious phrases and that will lead you to literature that contains more

    p.s. that should be "dirtily" ;)

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  • by mgl on June 26th, 2008

    mgl

    Become a part time phone-sex worker they will give you an script for you to start working on!! :)

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  • by knowitall on June 26th, 2008

    knowitall

    Talk dirty standing up or laying down? You can talk dirty both ways, but each is said "differently." I can teach one way! (women only, need apply!!!) ;)

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  • by Blumpkins4every1 on June 26th, 2008

    Blumpkins4every1

    Learning to talk dirty...involves unleashing ones lover's fantasies. So find out what he enjoys and evolve on that.

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  • by Papajorgio on June 26th, 2008

    Papajorgio

    watch porn lol

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  • by model on January 28th, 2008

    model

    i find when girls talk dirty 2 me it's filthy and disgusting and they get the boot straightaway. why do u want 2 talk dirty ? for me it's the biggest turn-off known 2 mankind. why do u girls think guys like it ?

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  • by theonlyone on October 27th, 2007

    theonlyone

    When he does something you like, say so. try something and go from there.

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  • by golfman78 on May 16th, 2012

    golfman78

    I Found This GREAT website! It tells you everything to know about how to talk sexy. :) http://www.availible20.sitemoxie.com/ Check it out. You'll be amazed at what you find.

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  • by altgirl84 on January 10th, 2008

    altgirl84

    Also look up Dan Savage's sex advice column at thestranger.com, he has a podcast there too. In the archived podcasts, I think 55 and 54 (or 56) he's gives advice about talking dirty; but be warned his advice is pretty uncensored, in any of his columns :)

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  • by james the first on January 29th, 2008

    james the first

    Mmmmm I love to talk dirty to my woman and be talked dirty in return. Actually I prefer to say we talk erotically. She loves it more than I do and she says once she has reached a point I can just keep repeating things over and over.

    Some suggestions:
    Get a tape recorder and see how you sound, try different voice pitchs and speed.
    Make a mental list of erotic words you feel comfortable with. Like I will never say cunt and rarely say fuck. Pussy is nice word, cock is good word. Do not use techical words like penis or vagina although occasionally et will work.
    Practice on the recorder a story line, you may want to write it down first. Start with just listing the things you want to do to him and have him do to you. Describe how what you want to do feels or how what he does to you feels.
    When you get comfortable with the story whisper it in his ear in as deep a voice as you can muster and while you are whispering you can caress his body, stroke his cock, lick his ear between words. The words should be at a very slow pace. You can kiss between sentences. Maybe put your breast in his mouth as you talk.

    Good luck.

    There is another thing I do is to type up a story of what you are doing to him but do it from his perspective, that he is describing what you are doing and how he is feeling. Have him read it aloud slowely with pauses while you do those things he is reading.

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  • by altgirl84 on March 23rd, 2007

    altgirl84

    Just relax and think about what you want him to do to you during sex and say it, and vice versa what you want to do to him

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  • by grifter911 on March 28th, 2010

    grifter911

    Have you ever stubbed your toe, dropped anything heavy on yourself, had to make it to work for a meeting you couldnt miss and your car breaks down. Its simple use those same colorful comments but aim them at him. You dont have to be vulgur and use launguage your not comfortable with. You can talk dirty just as well with out swearing. Some times just forget about the fact that you dont know what to say and just say it. I have that problem in my day to day activities I dont think before I say stuff sometimes... but in the long run its alot of fun to just let it go and lose control.

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  • by kool on June 26th, 2008

    kool

    talking dirty with your partner can turn you on

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  • by Chosun One on March 16th, 2007

    Chosun One

    no website can truly teach you how to talk sensual to your man, just try some things and see how he responds... go at it lightly at first.. dont just yell "f*ck me baby!!"

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