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It all depends. Have you asked how strict his family are? And if you make their son happy they should be happy for you. You need to talk it over more with him. and maybe meet them.
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im not jewish so i dont know for sure, but it definitly depends on the family. IF they are more laid back then they will probably accept you because their son loves you. if not then they may hate you. Good luck. but definitly talk to him, and if you have good repoir with the mom then ask her about it.
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Tough to call for sure. I guess if they respect the idea of personal choice and love their son, they will probably accept you. In my opinion, how they feel runs second to how you two feel about each other. How important is their acceptance?
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He knows his family, ask him. Marriages with partners of different faiths are fairly common, for most people it wouldn't be an issue. One caveat, if you're of age where you might be having children you would want to discuss children's religious upbringing in advance to make sure you're on the same page in your expectations and approach. Some couples raise the children in one or the other faith exclusively, some expose the kids to both, and some can't agree and fight over it to the detriment of everyone.
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No, but they might call you that if you have slept with a lot of Arab men.
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YES..
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Who cares? If they do it is their loss. What matters is that you are happy and in love. You have each other so dont let them ruin things for you. Chin Up!
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If it is the case that they would judge you this way,I would be wary in marrying this man.If you feel the need for their acceptance it might be too much of a headache,and there is your family as Catholics.Why should religion,especially if it is not practised really matter.
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No...why should they think of you that way?...That is stereotyping them. Not ALL people of ANY faith are fundamentalists/extremists....If they are normal they just want your b/f to be happy...and they will love you for ensuring that. Be open and yourself...and they will see in you what HE sees in you.
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No I think that they will disown him if he marries you and will no longer have anything to do with him and I do not think he is willing to give that up and will not marry you.
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Yes, who cares. If you love each other and want to get married then whatever. People from different religions especially those with strong beliefs will always have their opinions.
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Been there, done that. Have the divorce papers to prove it. Hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. If you hear some yiddish terms bantered about in his family, Nafka, Kurva, fischmutzed... run like hell. And carefully discuss every detail of every possible conflict. Does he expect you to attend temple? Make Challah? If you have a boy will he be circumcised by a Moyl? Will you be buried in the same cemetery? Assume every point that you have not gone over carefully (preferably in writing) in advance will be a serious fight later.
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