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by 0o-nicole-o0 on January 28th, 2007

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There has been a boy i have been texting for a while and he wants to meet up with me, i dont want to but the he says im just f@#king him around, im not though, how can i tell him in a nice way i dont want to meet up with him?

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  • by TwiceShy on December 6th, 2008

    TwiceShy

    If he is "nice" enough to accuse you of f@#king him around, then I wouldn't try to "tell him in a nice way" that you don't want to meet up with him.

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  • by john pennington on December 6th, 2008

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    Everyone understands the word NO.

    Its only two letters and easy to text.

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  • by JuJubee is wearing a COAT of chocolate on December 6th, 2008

    JuJubee is wearing a COAT of chocolate

    You don't have to be nice to him! He wasn't nice when he said you were f@&king him around! Tell him to stop NOW or you will go to the police!

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  • by Firebrand on January 28th, 2007

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    Just tell him" no thankyou I are not ready yet." he may disappear but there are many more texters about

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  • by BrokeDog on January 28th, 2007

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    Just tell him that you don't mind texting as friends, but if he wants more, then he will have to go somewhere else. Stick to your guns. Don't fall for the guilt trip he is trying to lay on you.

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  • by This Daley has a new bundle of joy on January 28th, 2007

    This Daley has a new bundle of joy

    Just tell him that you have a strict rule for yourself that you don't meet up with guys you don't know (have met online, whatever). If he is a real friend, he will respect that. If he doesn't, then he wants something else from you. You have to be your own number one priority!

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  • by WhyamIhere on January 28th, 2007

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    Just let him know you know of someone with a bad experience meeting up with someone they don't really know and you enjoy his compant via computer or cell phone but thats all you are interested in for now. And remember it's a dangerous world out there you never know what exactly you might get so please be very careful.....Don't let him pressure you into anything you don't want to do.

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  • by A on December 6th, 2008

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    Why do you have to tell him in a nice way at all? Flat out say "Stop harassing me." You don't have to take that shit. Why are you even talking to him if you don't seem to like him even remotely as a person? Are you sure you don't like the attention or the feeling of knowing a guy wants to meet up with you?

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  • by Wendora on January 28th, 2007

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    You will probably lose your text message friend but there are a lot of creeps and weirdos out there. I say you tell him that you and he do not have the same agenda and you wish him a nice life and say good-bye.

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  • by Anonymous on January 28th, 2007

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    Say no, he cant force you afterall

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  • by bagicide stayed 10 months too long on December 6th, 2008

    bagicide stayed 10 months too long

    Tell him you don't meet up with boys who use language like that, for starters. Its a sign of a lack of consideration for others, a lack of intelligence and a lack of vocabulary.

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  • by Schroeder on December 6th, 2008

    Schroeder

    Use the last 8 words of your question, but change "him" to "you."

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  • by Ms.A on December 6th, 2008

    Ms.A

    He doesn't sound like someone anyone should meet.Simply tell him that you do not want to meet him.I don't think you owe him an explanation and who cares if he gets mad or doesn't text you any more.He sounds like a jerk.

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  • by Isha on December 23rd, 2008

    Isha

    just stop texting him.

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  • by Sigma0-0 on December 23rd, 2008

    Sigma0-0

    Just tell him, sometimes sugar coating things doesn't work. Just tell him and let him deal with it.

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  • by Teri on December 6th, 2008

    Teri

    Just the fact that he came back viciously would be a red flag...I would tell him that I wasn't interested...sorry he thought there was more to your "relationship" and wish him a well.....I wouldn't answer his text after that...you might have to put up with a couple nasty texts but you don't have to read them...just delete them....

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  • by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on December 6th, 2008

    CaptainHarley adores his life penguin

    One of two things is true: either he's trying to manipulate you into meeting him, or he's seriously imbalanced. Either way, I would NOT advise you to meet this chracter. I WOULD advise you to drop him entirely. You do not have to be "nice." You DO have to be safe.

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