you shouldn't have to ask... you'll just know. I'm 15 and dating an older guy and i'm still a virgin. I'm just not ready yet, and your probably not either (if you ahve to ask)... the time will come and you'll just know. Just make sure you really love the guy you choose to give it to, because you can only give it away once and you can never get it back... Besides, just cause everyone else is doing it dosn't mean you should too....

Almost all the girls your age in your school have made a big mistake. You should wait until you are of legal age and you both feel you are ready.

At least until you are of legal age , and that depends what Country or state you are in. If you indulge yourselves before you are legal and you say he is OLDER he can be imprisoned for Statutory rape , even for child molestation . As I said this depends on the country. Britain it is 16. Even then you should wait until you feel absolutely ready, do not have sex just because you think you ought It does not matter what all the other girls have done they are all below the legal age of consent

Do you mean "older guy" as in over 18? In any case, it doesnt matter what others do, this is your life and your choices, and seems to me you are very mature, know what you want, and have your head on straight. Take your time, you have the rest of your life ahead of you.

PLEASE WAIT AS LONG AS YOU CAN! Sex might feel good, but it truly only complicates things when you're young.

Wait until your married. I'm 18 and I'm a virgin. Don't push things if you aren't ready. Just because everyone jumped off a bridge, doesn't mean that you have to. Use common sense. It's not always smart to go with the crowd.

hey ok well im 15 also and my boyfriend is 17. we are both virgins and alot of people think we aren't. we're also waiting. u dont have to have a certain time to have sex. just when your ready and he's ready (and your safe). just dont make a mistake. i have friends who have, and its horrible. good luck

Wait as long as you want, there is no pressure. When the time is right, you will both know it.

Wait until you two are ready and don't think about how everyone else seems not to be. I'm sure there is more that are then aren't and you shouldn't lose yours just because everyone else has lost theirs.

I'll be honest, I was 15 when I first had sex, and my girlfriend was 16. We were together for a long time before that and for us, we were ready and neither of us regret that. We weren't just a normal couple though. We were pretty mature about things and had a good idea of what we wanted in life. If you're not sure if you're ready.. then you're not. Don't have sex until it's something you want to do. There's no specific time to wait, but just wait until you're comfortable and interested in the idea. If you ever feel pressure from him because he says he's ready, don't. It's not about pleasing him, it's about both of you. Basically when you're ready, you'll know. For the majority of people, I would say 15 is too early. I'm 20 now, and I'm not going to tell you the whole story that you should wait till your both legal and/or married... however in the case with your boyfriend being over the age of 18, you might want to watch out for his wellbeing with the law. It is illegal, and if your parents want to take legal action against him, they have the right to. Just be careful.

Sex isn't a competitive sport -- it's your life, you should do it when you feel you're ready for it. At 15, it seems too early but its upto you to decide. The truth of the matter is that what may matter to your school friends today probably won't a decade from now, because the chances are, you'll have different friends. But it's you, and your life, you'll always have with you.

As long as you feel like. There's nothing wrong with waiting.

a long time.

You'll just know.

15 is young. you need to know you before you do this. sex is not only a positive thing, but can have its negative aspects: too young and too inexperienced emotionally can lead to poor self esteem and abuse. You don't have to live up to anyone else's standards. You keep your sights high. Aim for commitment, respect and honour, not notches on a gun. And, your guy sounds nice. My husband was a virgin when I married him at 23, and so was I. It's worth it. We have no regrets.

When you are ready it will happen,don't rush it.Be sure that you are ready.

AS LONG AS YOU CAN. Wait until THE PERFECT time. Really. YOU HAVE TIME. You have all the time in the world. You really CAN'T let yourself be rushed by anyone or you'll feel terrible afterwards.`make sure this is the person you want to lose it to, and make sure it's the right time. you'll feel it.

Til marriage

It's really no big deal, is you guys want to have sex, have it, it's fun, if you're uncomfortable, you wont hurt nothing if you wait untill you're ready. 15 is when I lost it, very hormonal age...

Until you're ready. And no offence to the other girls, but I think losing your V-Plates when you're only 15 is a bit irresponsible...

You need to wait till your both adults. Especially if he's over 18 or he will go to jail and have to register as a sex offender. You also have to look at the fact that you need to finish school before you should have to worry about being a parent. And that's a real possiblity if you do this. You're body may look adult, but it's not done growing yet. And you're just not mentally or emotinally ready for sex at 15. And what do you think your parents will do if they find out? Do they even know about the boyfreind? And as for those girls at school they are about the dumbest, most irresponsable and immature girls around. And you shouldn't even think about putting yourself in the same class as they are.

my advice is intil both of you are ready ,to take that important step , and ignor every one around you , if they putting strain on you.

You should wait until you can handle the consequences. For instance what would you do if even though you used protection you got pregnant. Yes, that can happen otherwise I wouldn't be here and BTW if you can get pregnant while using protection you can get diseases as well. It is no body else's business what you do in private with your boyfriend. And if someone asks you if you've "done it" I would say "Why do you want to know?"

I'm 15 and to be honest, I wish I would've waited because I wasn't completely comfortable. Other people pressured me into it, so just talk to your partner and If you both are ready (comfortable seeing each other naked with the lights on) then I'd say go for it. NEVER GIVE INTO PEER PRESSURE!!!

Untill you're ready. Its not a race.

Continue to wait. Wait until marriage, this will be the most precious time for you and the one you love. For a man to make a committment to you first is a very good thing. Don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.

You should wait until you are both ready. How long you wait should not be determined by what other people are doing. You should do whatever feels right to you. In my opinion, 15 is too young to be considering having sex anyway.

DOO IT NOW!!!! READY GO!!!!!!!!!

Till it feels right. Don't do it because your friends are doing it, that's not the right reason, do it because the two of you feel that you're ready to do it. It should be something that happens when you guys are ready and that way you won't have any regrets.

Till after the "I do". I think that sex is best and most meaningful when it's accompanied by true commitment and loyalty. It's just sweeter that way. And why shouldn't 'moving on' (I hate saying 'lose') from your virginity be one of the sweetest and best experiences in your life. You only get to go through it once.

When you and your guy are is between you two. Don't worry about what others in your school have done or when they lost their virginity. It's not their business. I strongly sugges that you and your boyfriend wait until it's totally right in both you minds that's what you wish to do. Remember.. you've both still got lifetimes ahead of you so there's no rush. Enjoy being a teenage while you can because adulthood will come soon enough.

It all depends when you feel ready and comfortable to do it.Its not a race it doesnt matter when it happens.

I dunno hold old is your guy? IF I were you I would wait between 16-18 to stay safe legally! And Chick USE CONDOMS! Dont get Pregnant!

if your not 100% sure if you should do it or not or when you should do it then your not ready. sex complicates everything, trust me. I am 18 & ive been with the guy i lost my virginity to for 4 years. we have a two year old son. when you have sex with somebody you get overwhelmed with feelings and emotions during and afterwards. some good ones & some bad ones if your too youn & not ready. dont let other kids at school pressure you into thinking because everyone else has had sex that you need to. because i can guarentee about 50% f them are just saying they have & the ones that ACTUALLY have, probably regret it or will when they get more mature. im not telling you how to run your life but when your ready, you will know. & when you are ready use precautions. good luck hunny (=

'till you get married.

You don't have to wait. Have fun. Gosh!

You both should wait until you are old enough and mature enough to deal with the possible outcome of this huge decision. Raising a family is no easy task for mature adults with full time employment. Don't be pressured by your friends, I was very happy I saved myself for the man I knew I would spend the rest of my life with. Take your time....what's the rush?

Wait til u get married girl. trust me it's worth it. fuck wat ppl say about condoms and crap.

when ur both ready 2 no body cant tell u when u two should have sex the two of u will know when u guys are ready

Whenever you both want to. Use appropriate contraception. Don't listen to idiots wanting to enforce *their* views of morality or religion upon you - it's your body, your mind, so you decide.

Whenever you want to. Use appropriate contraception. Don't listen to idiots wanting to force *their* views on morality or religion onto you - your body, your mind, your decision.

Well if you have to ask this question it sounds to me like your not ready right now. Perhaps waiting untill you are older just in case somthing does happen like you get prego, (like someone else said)you will be able to deal with it (or until your married). Just dont give into what "Everyone" says.

Simply wait untill it feels right. When you are both comfortable and ready. Oh, and don't forget to use a condom! :)

Valparaiso said it right. Wait till you've married him. A new bride should have a precious gift to give her husband --- her virginity. Almost all girls your age have lost it? Not to put too fine a point on it, they're sluts. Don't be one.

Just wait until you are both ready. You and him should have a talk about it, and if you're too embarrased to talk about it you shouldnt be doing it, and it means you're not ready.

You will no when your ready, until then be safe and explore each others bodies there are plenty of ways to do that without having SEX

Everyone is different. Wait till your both ready and sure before doing anything you might regret later. Nothing worse then feeling forced to do something when your not ready, I've been there myself. Good luck

Wait until you are ready, then don't wait anymore.

Well, since you are 15, I'd say to wait at least till you're 18 BUT, you do it when you feel the time is right, just make sure you are not pressured into it, ESPECIALLY by everyone else except you and your boyfriend.

seriously...15 is really early..i think you should wait a few years more and share it with the right person

Until you are comfortable with it. You shouldn't do it just because everyone else is doing it...

I guess I'm a little more old fashioned then most, but i believe that if you wait until marriage its better because you know your in love and will stay together. Sex is not just a ready when you are thing. It changes you and you can never know what to expect. Your 15 so youve got a while. you have no idea how much you change just through high school. i was 15 two years ago, but it feels like a life time ago. So if you are going to have sex wait at least 2 more years and see if you feel the same way. It may feel like people are judging you, but if the only reason your having sex is to make rumors stop or fit in . Those are not the right reasons. If he's older and he claims he's a virgin and he wants to have sex, be careful a lot could be wrong in that situation. I had a friend who had a boyfriend who was very very sligh. She never had sex with him and he dumped her but he would have dumped her sooner if she had had sex with him. guys like that talk after its over. so if he ever says dirty things you may want to rethink some of the things he says, like: if he ever tries top get you to tell him you love him with in a year, ever tries to touch and acts like its ok when you fell uncomfortable, or if he ever hangs out with other girls a lot. Guys can be sneaky

aww thats like how me and my boyfriend were and everyone said that to mee toooo.... i was 14 and my boyfriend was 17 ...we were both virgins and we ended up losing it to eachother about...4 months after we started going outt... i neverrrr would of thought it would of happened but...we started talking about it and it did...im glad it was with HIM tho...cuz were soooo in love and im still with him... im 16 noww...

The only way to know for sure that you've waited for the "right time" is to wait until you are married. If you make this decision, tell your boyfriend so that he knows your intentions. This will eliminate the awkwardness of deciding if you should "do it" or not. If both of you know that it is not an option it will be a whole lot easier to avoid. On the other hand, if you decide that you will wait until that "perfect moment", you will be constantly debating and worrying about whether or not is is the right time and whether or not it is even with the right person. Then maybe one day you'll do it and figure out that it was a mistake. Do you see how complicated that becomes? Just wait until marriage and you will not regret it.

A lot of people say they're not virgins when they are. You shouldn't let other people pressure you into having sex under the assumption that they have done it before. You said you are with an older guy.....how old is he exactly? 18? 17? 24? 50? If he's 18 or over, Please wait until you're 18 too. If he's older than about 20, he might just be taking advantage of you. Be careful, and if you decide to take the plunge remember to use condoms and sperm killing jelly from the 1st time!!

till your wedding night or honeymoon if you get married

You should wait until you are SURE you are ready. If that means you never have sex with each other, so be it. You will be a lot happier later in life if wait until you know it's right.

At your age I'd say at least a year. Things change so much from 15-20.