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zoso1166
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A Cheat is the worst scum of the earth in my book .. I, personally NEVER would forgive a Cheater .. let them parish in Hell . A Lier comes in a very close 2nd. You need to be able to TRUST the person whom you are with and if you can't believe what they say ... the relationship is DOOMED ....
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lying
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I think that both are just as bad as the other because they come as a package. If you cheat you must also lie in order not to get caught, so I find it difficult to separate the two.
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Cheating is worse than lying because it is a physical betrayal. Lying - everyone lies, despite our desire of honesty, but it is the severity of the lie that might never be forgiven.
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Cheating. But both would give me a reason to hit the road. No looking back!
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Cheating. Lying stinks, but some lies are forgivable. Cheating isn't.
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I think cheating is worse..a lie is a lie and still very bad but lies can vary in degree...cheating is cheating and there is no varying degree of severity in that AND cheating usually comes wrapped up in a lie or 3 so you also get a double whammy a lie and a cheat. Secondly lies hurt but you cannot get herpes, aids, or any other STD from a lie.
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cheating. everybody lies once in a while, but assholes cheat.
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lying...if your partner is cheating but tells you straight up...you know that you can still trust him/her and possibally be together again...a liar will hide things and once you find out...ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE!!!! trust me...liars SUCK so do cheaters but not as bad as liars
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cheating and lying.
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A liar could always confess the truth and he would probably be forgiven. A cheater Is a scumbag and like they say..Once a cheater Is always a cheater.
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Most people who cheat, lie about it. Besides, everybody lies at least white lies, and you can always apologise and tell the truth later. You can't uncheat.
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If you love and accept yourself you will honor yourself, and your partner. Lying and cheating are not commonly thought of as acts honoring anybody. If you dishonor another you also dishonor yourself. Interesting thought, if one partner has an entire family with another and acts as though it isn't true, that's lying. If the same person has a "fling" with another, that's cheating. So the lying, in this case, could be much worse. On the other hand, simply cheating once has been known to bust up many relationships while lying has frequently been excused. I guess it depends on the nature of the cheat or lie and the nature of the relationship. Both can be equally bad, however, or equally forgiven. Depends.
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BOTH... they are the same thing. You are being deceived either which way and both are equally as hurtful. Especially when you put them both together... cheating then lying about the cheating. The WOSRT of all. Last time that happened, took me 2 years to stop feeling the pain and trust becomes an on-going issue in your life.
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