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Yes, I did and more than once. The first time it was painful because it was at my new job. I had just moved where I live from a place 750 miles away; I may as well have moved to another country. There were 4 woman (about 10 to 15 years older than I) huddled talking about how my skirt was too short, LOL! Now, I laugh because it was just above my knees. Through the years I worked there, they would do that regularly. Funny thing is that whatever I did or wore, they would try to emulate it. One day one of them called me something nasty and uncalled for. I came out from where I was and told them all to f*ck off that I was sick of there hearing their petty b.s. and asked them if they had a life or if me and the other girls in the office was their only entertainment. I would still hear them talk about other people, but never heard them talk about me again...at least not in earshot. If you have been hurt by people saying things behind your back and it hurts, realize it's their problem; not yours. They are ignorant.
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Question #1 = Of course! Question #2 = Not very. - Would one really prefer *never* to be thought of if not immediately present? ;-)
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No. I'm sure some do and I don't care.
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it's not a very nice thought,but if they are really your friends they wont.
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No,not at all.
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Not really..as long as they are talking about me they are giving someone else a rest.
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The only time I get nervous is when they don't.
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No
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Depending upon who is saying it, it bothers me a bit. But, not everyone is going to like you ... so I get over it!!!
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I used to. One of the great things about getting older is little things don't bother you so much....
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Not at all, if they're talking about me they are leaving someone else alone.
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No way, usually people who talk about others are miserable and it makes them feel better to degrade others... screw them!
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No, of course not. If someone gets satisfaction from bashing me, then so be it.
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no it is none of my business....
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As long as i dont hear what theyre sayin im fine - but if i heard what theyre saying - yes it would hurt, im human!
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Not at all....nobody is liked by everybody...and if I should worry about what was being said, or if I cared about everybody not liking me, I would be neurotic!
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I liek it
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People would so that despite whatever you do.It's better not to pay attention but,sometimes they plot and screw your a**.
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Well yeah. If I don't know about it, I'm fine with it. I don't mind.
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Yes, that would bother me if I knew about it.
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It's more annoying than anything
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No. Them talking bad about me isn't bothersome. What I don't like is someone plotting to get me. Hahaha! Some people are scarey.
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i guess it would hurt my feeling knowing that people were talking about me.
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No not really I mean they aren't friends if they do that to you.
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Naw, I piss people off on a daily basis in my job.
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I used to but not anymore, Just makes me feel good that someone is thinking about me that much lol
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I mean, I try not to, because I know they do. But it bothers me a lot, yes. I'm a very self-conscious person and the idea of being talked about really bothers me, but it's going to happen, so whatever.
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I think it is human nature to care (or at least pay attention to what people are saying about you) but I dont let it get me upset...I do think about it in a "self-evaluating" kinda way but then I move on...that is a learned thing tho (to move on) cuz when I was young I took it very personal & had my feelings hurt alot but then I got tired of having my feelings hurt, matured a little & learned to move on!
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not really, even so what you could you do? they are doing behind your back you know.
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It depends what the consequences of it are. Many people who do so are not taken seriously by sane people, so it doesn't bother me in that instance.
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No, I have never heard people talking about me behind my back. I am quite sure there will be but I have yet to hear it with my own ears.Gossips are fast becoming a culture in our society.
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i've heard coworkers do this. and, they weren't saying anything bad about *me*- they were just bored, and jealous. at first, i was shocked and outraged, because i don't do anything (at work, at least) for them to talk about me and i make it a habit not to talk about others, especially at work. i just hate gossip. but, i wasn't mad for long, bc i knew that i would get back at them. :D
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i mightve but i dont really remember what it was about
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