ANSWERS: 7
  • "I'm glad to hear that you're open minded, S/O".
  • Plan a date where at the end of the date you spend the night in a hotel. The SO may be more open minded in this setting.
  • grab it from under the pillow during sex
  • Tie him/her up and tell them that it is experiment time. If you're S/O does not like it, then stop. If he/she does then untie them and have fun!
  • We go the the adult toy store together - But if you already have it, blind fold them.
  • Some like to know the inner workings of the toys. So do a show and tell. the quickest intro is nudie cards to play strip poker. bet articles of clothes. next games is YOU CAN DO or USE? and have a list of objects or cards with suggestions on them for the other partner to do. each taking turns, kind of a truth or dare. just remember, your s/o may select the dildo to use on you or whatever so make sure you want them introduced
  • If you do not currently use sex toys, then you need to discuss this up front. Probably via watching a porno and seeing one. Find a porn on the web and then be watching it when she comes into the room (say a friend sent it to you). When she looks and sees the toy, ask her "that looks nice, should we give that a try?". Then see how they react. If you currently use sex toys and are therefore experts, then just whip it out during sex and say "lets try this!". Unless it is something abnormal (e.g. a blow up doll!) I think the above will work.

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