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by Anonymous on January 25th, 2007

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My 47 year old husband of 20 years has lately only been able to get an erection by fantasizing about masterbating with another man. This makes me feel undesirable and I'm loosing any interest in having sex. Any suggestions for my ego and/or sex drive?

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  • by JUSTNORMAL on January 25th, 2007

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    I think men and women fantacize about lots of things, and I think he is very open with who he is by telling you, most men wouldnt. But that doesnt help you right now. He is pushing 50, and that is a ver crucial age for men. How bout spicing it up some for him, in any way you can. I also believe he should get a check up and have his prostate checked out. If all else fails, I suggest couples therapy

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  • by kat on February 20th, 2009

    kat

    Woman you should not have to act like a man.It`s no wonder you feel bad.But it`s his problem not yours .
    How was it before?Ask him how long he`s had these feeling.Urologists can test blood for harmone levels and give shots or meds. But it would bother me so bad for him to be thinking of a MAN,that i would lose interest also.Why is he not the one looking for answers?Is he slightly sadistic?Maybe you should look for someone else before you ars shocked that he has left.People do fantasise about alot of things but i`m sorry,but that sounds too~too gay to me!I`m sorry but you are better than that.Because you cared to try to fix it.

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  • by Heather108 on November 30th, 2008

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    Light some candles in the bedroom and give him a back rub (then do the front rub)..... Candle light makes magic!

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  • by dee on March 13th, 2008

    dee

    try him in your panties and do masturbation as you are standing oveer him on the floor,this should make you and him both cum a quart or two!

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  • by Chester on February 9th, 2007

    Chester

    Why not try dressing up as a man? That might really get things going!

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  • by Lucky on October 31st, 2008

    Lucky

    Do the ends justify the means? Its what you do with the erection, not how you got it. At least he's being creative. Is he attempting to please himself or to please you?

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