by Anonymous on January 29th, 2009

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A guy told me he liked a girl but then saw her in a vulnerable state and it turned him off. Then he found me in almost the same way but he now acts strange. why would he tell me this and then it would happen to me.

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  • by Ms.A on January 31st, 2009

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    He can't be direct with you so he wastes time with stories.

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  • by Daydreamer on January 31st, 2009

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    He wants a strong woman probably. Guys don't like a woman to lean on them or be too vulnerable. It can scare them as they don;t know what to do. And also they start thinking that you may become emotionally dependent. They look for strength and they like a woman they can chase a little.

    However, I feel that us women are very in touch with our own feelings and can easily and openly express them. I don't see it as weak to show your vulnerability. That is just who you are, who we are. So find a guy who is strong enough to deal with that if you can.

    Personally I have had enough of men and relationships. Its so much stress and heartache and unrealistic expectations, I'm thinking that all men should bugger off now. Insensitive, thoughtless and selfish... all of them. Whats the point in it all?

    Focus on friends and making life better for yourself. Men are a distraction from your own progression and mainly just make you feel bad. Sorry... i'm cynical.

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