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I would rather be with someone I love. I am giving person. In this case, I am sure of my feelings. I can't be sure if that 'someone' who loves me, really does.
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Ooh, to be an emotional crutch for someone or have them be an emotional crutch for me? I would prefer (assuming you mean that the love was unrequited) that I loved someone. It's said that it's better to have loved and lost, than never have loved at all. I'm just lucky, I guess that my wife loves me and I'm absolutely besotted with her.
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It's not healthy to expect someone to just love you...one should be satisfied with the honor of loving someone. I try to make myself happy purely with the idea that I do love someone, but sometimes that love is not enough to keep it together.
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I was with someone that loved me and I did not feel as strongly about him it didn't work out and every day he still begs me to take him about I start to get really mad about it it has been over ten years ago.
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Both are tough; I love this girl with all MY HEART,SOUL and LIFE and to her we were friends.. Thats HARD, being with her and LOVING her soooo much, it hurts not to be loved back. its tough to be just friends with someone who loves you . you "watch what you say, do and how you act since you don t want to "lead them on" Id have to say Id Rather Be alone ( of course that sucks too ! ;(
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Neither. If I am going to be with someone, I want to be loved as much as I love them. Being with someone you love without it being reciprocated is frustrating and makes one unhappy. Being with someone who loves you without loving them back would not be fair to them. I would rather be alone.
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Well, I'll be honest. I'd prefer to be with someone who loves me. But then, see, I'd get to love them eventually, so it'd all work out in the end. I wonder if anyone will accuse me of being selfish...
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I would rather love someone that can willingly and effortlessly love me back.
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Neither, because one would get hurt either way
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I'd rather be the loved one.
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Be a narcissist and you are covered both ways.
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With someone who loves me. I'm already the giving, caring type so it would balance out that way.
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I'd rather be with someone who loves me. In relationships with people I actauly love, I seem to lock myself into a self-destructive cycle of giving until it hurts, and yet somehow feeling guilty that I don't have more to give. I'd rather be able to take for once.
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Someone i love, without a doubt. Theres surely nothing worse than being in a relationship where love is onesided. I think i'd feel bad. I was deeply in love with my first longterm girlfriend and i've never been able to match that bliss. Things just seem to be too in-focus nowadays.
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both or nothin at all thanx...been ther dun that not gona do it agen. (not a good thing 4 a 15 year old 2 say but oh well)
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I would rather be with someone who love me...I am in a situation where I love someone now...
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rather be dead than choose one of the above in true life. both would lead to frustration and depression
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Oh it's a two way street. I gotta have it both ways. I can't REALLY love someone who won't love me back, and I won't be with someone I can't love. That's just impossible for me. *shrug*
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Someone I love, I've met people who said they loved me but if there's nothing from my side then I'll never be satisfied.
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It depends on how ugly is the someone who loves you is?
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id rather be with someone i love than someone who loves me because, id rahter had bad times with someone i love than good times with someone i dont love...
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id rather be with someone i love than someone who loves me because, id rahter had bad times with someone i love than good times with someone i dont love...
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i have had (long ago) the revolting experience of being 'loved' by some-one who utterly sickened me, due to being physically/mentally/psychically/developmentally UNWORTHY of ME!. remembering this, i am far too respectful of myself to stay in a situation where intense feelings are not reciprocated. but it depends on hte definition of 'love'. and 'with'
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Well, I love someone with all my heart and soul, but they ripped my soul out by telling me they love me and screwing with my heart once again. Unfortunately, I canot get that person out of my head and I am with someone else. I love the other person dearly, but I am not in love with them. I would rather be with the one who loves me and wants to be with me than keep hurting from the other one. The unfortunate thing is, my soul is in turmoil from the love lost.
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being with someone whom i knew loved me. cos eventually i would learn to love them. i am a very paranoid, selfconcious and needy person
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