ANSWERS: 6
  • I strongly suggest getting therapy to overcome and accept all fear. It helps one to rest comfortably in one's self, and what others do has much less impact on self esteem, thinking and choices.
  • dont accept to much from him.learn to give him trust n love.he cannot forget these things.
  • don't worry. i'm in the same boat. with the former relationship disasters i'm struggling to trust my fiance. but he is taking steps to help me see that i don't need to worry again. but i still do. the smallest things make me feel insecure, but i try to remind myself that not every guy is the same, and that i need to give him a try before i crush myself thinking he is going to cheat or something. i've been through hell and so far things have been better with him. i've learned to let go of the feelings if i do get hurt again i now know how it feels and that i CAN move on i'm strong enough to find better else where. i'd personally lift ur spirits before u try again. help yourself see that your wonderful, beautiful, and worth something to some one. :) hoped i helped some. my thoughts are racing trying to help you. lol
  • i am a guy and i have been cheated on by every girl friend i have had. i find it hard to trust people im in a relationship with, i feel like everyone i am with is having some sort of a relationship with someone else,hell ive even been on a date with someone and they have went home with one of my buddys and had sex and than came to my house the next day wanting to hang out, i reallly dont know what to do about it either, all i can say is watch watch your back and keep and open ear now and than, if you suspect anything or are being mistreated leave its not worth it, and leave with a smile, you better than that =)
  • You probably won't get over your doubts until you two are further along in your relationship because wounding takes time to heal. If possible, ease up a little on the doubting, especially if he isn't giving you a reason to doubt him. Time will help you; best wishes!
  • I have the best advice ever.'' It's the little things that bother me'' Not knowing puts doubt in ones head. If you have talks about the little things the worry goes away. You have the same problem as most women. Your not busy enough or to worried about the relationship and your imagination gets the best of you. You don't want to put your guard down and you can't let things be what they are. So stop victimizing yourself. It's a new relationship. You learn from your relationships. Try not to bring the baggage with you. Start off on a new page but never forget what you have been through. Half of what his guy likes about you is your attitude. That was built on all your past experiences. So head up be proud. What you went thorough makes you the women you are today.

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