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by Josh on January 16th, 2009
Ask him what turns him on. If he honestly lets you know about some of the nasty little things that run through his mind, you can do some of them for him. Yes delaying orgasm does a lot, and some prostate teasing is incredible, but by simply doing things, saying things, or wearing things that make him squirm with pleasure can do just as much. Get into his perverted little world, and watch him drop power loads left and right.
by scumoftheearth on April 17th, 2009
tease him and don't let him cum. Right before he get there stop and let him settle down. Do this several times then finger his ass and right before he cums squeeze gentley at the base of his penis and slide your hand up all while squeezing. He will shoot higher and farther than he has before.
by Bugs-Bunny on March 2nd, 2009
I think the most common way is without doubt prostate stimulation (i.e. anal intrusion). Suck on him and push a lubed finger up inside his ass. Be gentle and feel around and when he cums, you watch -- he will squirt feet into the air. Pull your finger out of his ass just as the last spurts happen.
by kiwisoccer on January 26th, 2009
Just ask him what things or situations or fantasy really turns him on and try do it if it is possible
Or you can do what he likes the most to his penis then when he is about to cum stop completly and make sure he dosent finish the job off himself, wait 3 or 4 minutes then start again and repeat this cycle about 5 or 6 times on him and he should be begging you to finish him off and have a way stronger orgasm
Or if you handle the sexual tention agree to have no sex or no sexual contact and masburbation for about a week or week and a half and all the sexual build will make him cum like never before
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
Threesomes work wonders ;
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
Rocket, I adore you...just wanted to let you know :)
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
LoL u may be asking someone else if their name is Lori? Im not sure how this works exactly? My name is Rachel:0 Thanks for your comments
by NotReallyHere on January 16th, 2009
Oh, gosh, where to begin? One good way is to increase the sexual tension before allowing him release. Tease him, get him to the point where he's in pain from needing to cum. There are lots of ways to increase the stimulation for him, mentally and physically, that would make the orgasm more intense.
For DH and I, I love to put on porn. I find the visual stimulation increases his pleasure no matter what we are doing. I like talking dirty to him, too. I also use sex toys to make things more intense for him. You kind of have to experiment with those, see what gives pleasure to him.
Experiment - sex is so much fun, and so wonderful - it's a great way to spend time with your love!
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
I keep doing this, posting an answer when I mean to post a comment...
by Lucky on April 6th, 2009
Try marijuana.
by Jonathan on April 6th, 2009
Rocket, plenty of great answers, it is just great that you care about him that much.
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
thanks i hope i can figure it out
What is the most surefire way to get an orgasm by yourself? Any good tips?
by bebe18 on September 15th, 2011
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LADIES !!!! How will you feel if i lick your bellybutton ?
by Ajay_K8079 on October 20th, 2011
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What little thing does he or she do that makes your orgasm out of this world?
by mike_oxheart on September 23rd, 2011
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What happens during an orgasm?
by smith11 on September 7th, 2011
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Do men fake orgasms like women?
by Anonymous on October 11th, 2011
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You're reading I want to make my bf's orgsam stronger any tips for me?
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This is so true. Sex is mostly about what goes on in the brain. And each man is so unique, you can't just assume every man has the same turn-ons. It takes time and trust, and most of all, don't ever hurt him when he makes himself vulnerable to you by telling you the truth about what excites him. Even if it's something you find gross or offensive, don't let him know that, keep a neutral face, thank him for opening up to you.
by NotReallyHere on January 16th, 2009
Part 2: Even if you think a fantasy of his is yucky at first, think about it for awhile. Try to think about it while masturbating, try to see if you can find some kind of pleasure in it. It will make your relationship so much stronger if you can find it in yourself to willingly participate in his fantasies.
by NotReallyHere on January 16th, 2009
If only my wife would have taken that position. The first time I told her I wanted her to fuck my asshole, she damn near cried. "are you gay?" "why would you want that?" I'm afraid of what it might mean..."
That got old. I had to explain in detail why I wanted it, what I found hot about it, how long I've wanted her to do it to me, provide literature that cover the "straightness" of the activity, etc...
It was like a damned research project just to get a piece of rubber in my butt.
by Josh on January 16th, 2009
Forgive me for laughing at your last line...I know I shouldn't be laughing, I know that must have been psychologically very painful to you, being rejected in a sense, but your last line was really funny...
I'm glad she finally saw the light, and I'm glad you were brave enough to discuss it at length with her. Most men would have given up and lived without the pleasure, or just gotten it on the side.
by NotReallyHere on January 16th, 2009
Oops, thought my last comment wasn't going to be posted, so I rewrote it.
I'm so glad you are giving and receiving pleasure with such abandon. It makes me happy to see people enjoying the exquisite pleasure sex gives.
by NotReallyHere on January 16th, 2009
Well, she's almost home from work now. Time to cook dinner. Looks like ribeyes and potatoes tonight. Goodnight ANONYMOUS. Do you have a name, or will it just be anonymous for now...?
by Josh on January 16th, 2009
thank you josh I shall give it a try!
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Hey, Rocket, thanks for approving me as a friend! :) I appreciate it!
For Josh....my name is Lori. I hope you got it as good as I did last night. Animalistic and raw, and looking at each other afterwards in amazement..."I didn't hurt you, did I? Are you okay?" I feel so completely sated and happy today, and even more in love with my husband than ever. And grateful to you, for helping me feel sexy and hot enough to get that passionate.
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
You're welcome rocket. I'm here to help whenever possible. Lori... does your last name start with a V? I knew a Lori a while ago, who was older than me, and into some of the same stuff... Anyway, no animalistic loving for me last night. Just me, some lube, a hot movie, and a towel. It was good, but my wife knows she has some making up to do. She came home from work exhausted, so I forgive her. She just has to punish me later...
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
No, dear friend...unfortunately we haven't met in real life.....
I hope your wife makes your fantasy come true tonight, I hope she makes you cum so hard you pass out from it.
Damn, I wish I had a video clip of you stroking your cock and giving your sexy butthole some loving attention...would love to masturbate watching that. Sigh.
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
I figured it was a long shot. I was about 18 or so, and I met a wonderful lady named Lori V... online in some naughty chatrooms. I bought a web cam, took some photos, and well, I stopped shortly afterwards. I never said goodbye. I thought I was taking it way too far. Well, my wife (fiance at the time) found an email, with a picture of myself, naked, and there was hell to pay. It was then I resolved to never do it again. As much as I'd love to show you... I do love her dearly. Come to think of it, I think the original Lori is about 47ish now... Are you sure...? Anyway, you're more than hot enough for me. Dang love crap~
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
I picked up a big 8" x 2" dildo for my misses a few months back. She is still too nervous about using a toy that big. I explained to her I'd picked it out because it was close to, well, my size, and she still hasn't used it. Even though it is a little smaller, being a toy, and not flesh, she's just scared of it.
Well, it has been used several times anyway, even if she's afraid of it. I can visualize exactly what I'd show you. Dripping with clear glistening lube, I slide myself down on the huge blue latex shaft... Oops, too mugh for AB. So, does your hubby know you "flirt" online?
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
I am sure that I am not Lori but I like talking to you :)
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
And I you. I am nowhere near experienced ehough sexually to tell you what he will or won't like, but I'll give you pointers and suggestions about what he may like you to do.
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
We live in seperate locations and do as we please. We try to see each other once a week or so. Sometimes it is hard to get together. I don't ask him any questins and he doesn't ask me any. The blended family thing didn't work out for us. We are best friends and we don't want to loose that. As far as the rest goes it is unspoken.
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Thanks for the info about what he may like, he is pretty shy about talking about sex!
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
How do I add photos to my page? Do you know?
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
When I finally opened up to my wife and told her all of my nasty, naughty little thoughts, she didn't immediately reciprocate with making them happen. Instead, she started opening up new avenues for us sexually, that I hadn't tought of, but enjoyed almost as much as had she done exactly what I pictured. Though I still have some lingering fantasies, I definately love the dierction our bedroom antics are headed. For me, the dirtier, and nastier they get the better. I think she's finally starting to see that I mean no harm, I just want us both to get off with powerful intensity.
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
I'm not 100% sure how to add pictures, but
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/101826
This goes over the how-to's
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
Hey, Rocket, is it just me, or does Josh get you all revved up too?
Josh, I think you have a threesome going on here ;)
DH knows in a general sense. He doesn't come snooping for specifics, and I don't snoop around in his life, either. We both have our fantasies, and we both give each other enough space so that we can bring all that energy back home to the marital bed.
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
Oh, Josh, I would so fucking love to see you giving it to yourself like that...hey, I can dream about it and imagine it in my mind at least...
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
Yeah a threesome is kind of what i thought of also :)
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Have you ever let another woman play with you? Or fantasized about it? I don't consider myself bisexual really - I mean I don't fall for women like I do for men - but one time I did a threesome and my friend straddled my face and I licked her clit until she came. It really turned me on - I felt like I was being so dirty and naughty doing that. I'd kind of like to do that again to another girl if I could find one who would let me...
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
LOL, Josh, I know you're typing one-handed at this point, am I right? I sure hope you are anyway...the two of us together could do such nasty, wonderful things to that sexy body of yours...
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
I am bi-sexual, so yes I have done and been done by a gal:) It is very hot. I love pussy MEOW.
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Well, I figured it would either be a threesome or a catfight (ha). I am a master of one handed typing, but unfortunately, I am not **ahem** "enjoying" the finer points of this exchange, if you know what I mean. He's a little info for your imagination.
6'2"
about 160
just about the only fat on my body lies in my ass
dirty-blonde curly hair (a little too long to be clean cut)
deep ocean blue eyes
a mild 5-oclock shadow
shaved from my nipples to mid-thigh, and around underneath
pretty large in the magic zone
I have one nut bigger than the other
my nose is a tad bigger than I'd like it to be
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
I can't play hoo-hoo with myself right now. I'm working, and my "DW" is hinting that there may be fun in store when she gets home from work at midnight.
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
You sound sexy as hell :) coudos 2 you for waiting for your lady to come home. I am luck I am a woman, not waiting just makes me all the more ready when fun is in store for me.
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Yeah my wife says I'm sexy, but all I see is a lanky guy with a big nose.
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
I am 5'10"
about 145
hour glass
brown hair, to the middle of my back
no 5-olock shadow - thank goodness
90% shaved
pretty small in my magic zone
my right breast is a tiny bit bigger than my left, i prefer my left side
my nose is straight
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Lol, sometimes we view ourselves in a smoke covered mirror. Trust what your wife tells you. She is the only one that matters when it comes to that.
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Too true. I suppose if I looked like Animal from the muppets it would still be ok, because she digs me.
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
lol Animal well now you are reaching for it :) he is a bit hairy for my taste
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
I could never compete with you two in a bar :)
The truth is, I'm 5'5", 140 (yeah, fat thighs) 34DD (I do like having tits) and pretty average for a 47 year old. Blue-green eyes, currently have short red-brown hair (in the photos it's dark - I just got it lightened up, wanted a change..)
I'll have to take down the avatar photo eventually, but I'll leave it up for a bit so you can attach a face to the person you are chatting with here on AB.
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
Josh, I have always loved men with big noses. Figured out early on they were usually very sexy men, and skilled lovers. Maybe something to do with the effects of testosterone in the womb?
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
I like big noses for a totally selfish reason "I love where they hit me during oral sex"
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
I posted a photo of myself also. Anonmous you are a doll....
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Yes, I do agree with nasal placement durring oral. No matter front, back, top, bottom, my nose is either in her asshole, on her clit, or in her pussy, while I lick the naughtiest spot.
And I wouldn't say I'm a skilled lover, but I have yet to NOT satisfy a woman. First you then me, if you know what I mean.
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
I have to say that I am truly third place in this beauty contest. I'll change my avatar to a picture of my son and I. I'll be changing back tomorrow.
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
A man with a small nose is lacking one very nice sexual organ! I love all of the spots you have mentioned! The nastier the better. I don't believe in taboo if the partner is willing so am I.
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Here is a photo of my son (see my avatar)
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Your son looks just like you.... HA
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
just a little HA HA .... I am a lucky mom he is such a blessing... He is 16 going on 30 if you know what I mean. He has always been an exceptionally easy child to raise.
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
I forgot to add, your son is beautiful, too, Josh. I'm so glad you both passed on your genes. You both seem like such incredible people. I'm honored to have met both of you...and flirted with both of you.
Okay, I'm kind of drunk here, I'll admit it, but I love both of you.
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
Darn, my original answer didn't post. Rocket, you are so sweet and beautiful...and Josh, you are gorgeous beyond belief. If I saw you in public, I would slink away from you, blushing and looking down, certain that someone like you must think I'm repulsive by comparison.
I want to use my mouth on both of you, for hours on end.
I can dream, can't I?
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
That is why we can dream isn't it? I am truly honored and validated. You are hot. "Repulsive" is a rediculous falicy. I'm glad if I can be flirted with. It doesn't happen much in the real world. Lori, Rachel, if two women as hot as you would flirt with me, even online, it makes me think that maybe my wife isn't going blind. For women that look incredible, articulate themselves well, and are honest in the sexiest sense on the word say they'd flirt with me in the real world means a lot.
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
**wiping the brown off my big nose**
by Josh on January 17th, 2009
lol thats not brown nosing thats being sweet:)
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009
Isn't he wonderful? I'm going to remember this man for the rest of my life. So many men out there, worried about penis size, stamina, whatever...if only they realized the power they could have over women just with words....
by NotReallyHere on January 17th, 2009
True, i enjoy being talked to with kindness and kink on occasion:)
by Rocket on January 17th, 2009