Are any of you against divorce?
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AnonymousGirl
ANSWERS: 36
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Yep, me. We don't have rights to break a relation once you become husband and wife, especially when you do that with a testimony in the presence of God and all the people as witness on the marriage day. Or leave the testimony. Still...?? At least for me, I don't support it.
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yup, it turns kids to crack. plus its f'd up when your step parents have boinked before they married your parents.
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I am. A belief I'm finding to be obsolete.
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Not completely but getting one shouldn't be taken lightly at all. The ideal is for a couple to be so determined to make things work that they don't even think of divorce as an option.
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Only if it is post-marital.
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I used to be. Then I got married.
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It should be the last option in any marriage!
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It'd be a lot easier to answer this if some people actually gave marriage some serious consideration!! Can't jump into that so quickly, you know.
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No, but I think it should be a very last option. I think that people should take marriage more seriously and not jump into it too quickly.
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I'm against rushing into marriage, but hey sometimes it just doesn't work. There is no point in living your life in misery.
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I don't support it at all. I'm getting one, but I didn't ask for it. I don't regret it, but I'm still against divorce in general.
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NO
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It should be a last resort if there are mutual offspring involved. If there are no kids, it is really no big deal at all.
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I am, but just like war is a necessary evil. I felt like the angel of devorce for a time because I could see so many families that desperately needed to give up the bond for one reason or another... that chewed me up so badly because I believe marriage and family are important.
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Yes, but I dont believe in torture either
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I believe that when you get married thinking that divorce is an option, you are practically setting yourself up for failure. I don't think that you get to be divorced just because you aren't happy anymore. Many couples believe that when they have children, they don't need to work on the marriage. They think they can just pick up later when the kids move out. Not true! Continue to find ways to stay connected and be friends. You said some pretty deep vows at your wedding and made promises. That should mean something. Remember, "for better and for worse". There are 3 reasons for divorce: physical or verbal violence on spouse or children (verbal violence would be daily name calling, screaming at you, constant put downs, public dislays of such) cheating after 1 time and that time being worked through addictions (drug, alcohol, gambling) These don't have to necessarily cause divorce, but they would make it an option.
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I'm against getting married for the wrong reasons and against getting married out of stupidity. Divorce is inevitable as long as people do those things. So, NO, I'm not against divorce.
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Sometimes its something that needs to happen things dont always work out like you wanted in this wonderful game of life
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No. It's a good way to get out of uncomfortable situations for those who rush into weddings.
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Yeah, I am. I think everyone should stay together even thou they are cheating and beating on eachother. Eventually they will just kill eachother off. (jkidding)
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If it is for the right reasons then no. I am a divorced woman and I did it for the right reasons.
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No, but I'm wholeheartedly against marriage
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im not but my Bf is... especially if you have kids he said he would not get a divorce even if the woman cheated on him if they had children that they would have to work it out as long as no one was getting abused they would have to work it out
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No cause sometimes you marry someone who is a phony and they use you..
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Yes, no matter how bad your situation has become, there’s still hope. Plus, God warns us in Scripture about the danger of entering into marriage half-heartedly. If two do not love each other any longer, there was something wrong with their love in the first place.
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I know some that are, but I am a realist. I realize that not every relationship works out peachy like many would like to hope. Sometimes you can feel a deep love for someone else, and then something goes sour along the way. And life's too short to stay with something that doesn't make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside anymore.
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Not in the least. Can't imagine still being married to my ex after what she put me through. I should have pressed charges though when I had the chance.
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Yes...that's why I will not get married again for the 3rd time.
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Not at all. Do it all the time.
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I don't know of anyone who likes divorce. I'm for the family. It's good if people can work things out but that can't always happen. There may be abuse, addiction, and lack of love and caring in a marriage. If people aren't willing to change and work at the marriage, divorce may be the only answer -- someone might not want the divorce but they have to get one for their own well being and happiness.
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Not at all. If one party doesn't want to be part of it, move forward with the divorce.
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Absolutely not. In the "olden days", divorce was considered taboo. I can't imagine having to live the rest of my life being married to my former husband. That would be a fate worse than death!
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its not something i ever want to go through but im not against it.
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I was, until I needed one...
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I hate divorce. It should not be considered as an option for difficult marriages.
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I am definitely for quick easy divorces in cases of abuse, whether emotional or physical. However, I think too many folks reach for divorce when it really isn't warranted. I don't think divorce should be the first option. I think too often we solve with divorce that which could be solved with a little consideration and manners. I think we try to solve unhappiness with divorce, when the unhappiness is coming from within, rather than from our partner.
Veronica 
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