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by Anonymous on January 14th, 2009

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My gf broke up with me, next day i found she lied to me and was messin with another guy( jus kissing she says) And now she cares bout him. And she dont know if she shud chose me or him. and she asked me to wait to see how it would go with him. wut do i do

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  • by Blackberry. on January 14th, 2009

    Blackberry.

    She is controlling you man! Get the hell out of there! She knows she has you wrapped around her finger, why else would she ask you to wait while she tried out other men? Open your eyes man! Seriosuly, forget her. Goodluck. ^^b

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  • by celticmoonlight on January 14th, 2009

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    if you want to be a doormat do as she has. basically what shes saying is "im a bit of of you and found someone better looking. will you wait for me in case he doesnt ask me out" harsh but true. you deserve better

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  • by Sailing Falcon on January 14th, 2009

    Sailing Falcon

    Neva eva wait for her... Now you are on ur own. Celticmoonlight is ryt... You deserve better :)

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  • by A on January 14th, 2009

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    It sounds like you're just back up now and this guy she was messing around with is a rebound. Are you comfortable with that? If not, maybe it is time to move on.

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  • by Marlin on January 16th, 2009

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    this would mean that she considers you two guys like merchandises!!! She tries one, then the other, and makes her choice once she's satisfied!!! That sounds a bit mean to me! Do you do customer service?

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  • by Bathory on January 16th, 2009

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    Man are you kidding?! Don't be blind, she cheated on you in the first place. You're not a doormat. Dump her and prove her that she's not worthy to be your partner. You don't want to have bigger problems when you accept her again, do you? Don't let her control you.

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  • by celeste on March 13th, 2009

    celeste

    ''move on'' It's just gonna get worse. You want a women not a ''whore'' Any lady worth being with would not ask that of you......
    Don't you kinda like your being played ?
    If you kinda feel like it.....''THEN YOU ARE''
    Run she is bad news.
    ''RUN''.............

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  • by Ditto on March 13th, 2009

    Ditto

    You let her go and don't take her back. She doesn't care enough about you to want to stay with you unless there is no one else. You shouldn't give her a choice between you or him... she's with him now and you are her leftovers - only good enough when there's nothing better to eat. Don't wait for her.

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  • by Daydreamer on January 16th, 2009

    Daydreamer

    Avoid contact for a while. When she gets in touch with you be cool! And if she starts asking questions be vague. Keep her guessing. Maybe even slip in that you're also seeing someone else so not sure about anything anymore. Turn it around-see how she likes it. It might be a fake out, but she has to learn how it feels.

    At the end of the day, do you really want to wait around while she is comparing you both? maybe even sleeping with him by now? who knows. Self respect is the key!

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