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by justdroppingby on January 13th, 2009

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Have u ever said I love you and didn't mean it? u just said it to make the other person feel better?

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  • by DwarfClown on January 13th, 2009

    DwarfClown

    No...when I say "I love you" I mean it. I would say "I care about you" or something similar, if I didn't love the person.

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  • by katie7576 on January 13th, 2009

    katie7576

    yes..on my wedding day to my now ex

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  • by JND...IsHappy on January 13th, 2009

    JND...IsHappy

    I said it once, and I regretted it immediately afterward.

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  • by B.fife My honesty makes people angry... on January 13th, 2009

    B.fife My honesty makes people angry...

    There have been times when I've been ambushed with this while"in the act"and I have to admit I've been guilty of replying during the heat of the moment...

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  • by thewhitetulip on January 13th, 2009

    thewhitetulip

    Yes my boyfriends 5yr old. Theres something about when a child says "I love you"-I just can't say, "look buddy, I don't love you in fact I can barely stand you."

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  • by Alias xsicajess on January 13th, 2009

    Alias xsicajess

    No, because I feel there are different levels of love... thats why you follow it with "as a friend or in a specail way"

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  • by RosieGHM Jetpacker on January 13th, 2009

    RosieGHM Jetpacker

    Never. That is a lie, whatever the motive. There are many different kinds of love..romantic,platonic,everyday...I love cauliflower..I love Jim..I love my son..I love my friends..I love life...all real, true and different from one another. But to say it about anyone or anything and not mean it? Never happen. I'm not wired that way. Happy Tuesday! :)

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  • by budaman on January 13th, 2009

    budaman

    Yeah during my on/off relationship. I used to love her but stopped at some point yet still said it on occasion when she said it first.

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  • by --paw43--is back for now on January 13th, 2009

    --paw43--is back for now

    Yes I have been guilty of that!

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  • by bbydoll on January 13th, 2009

    bbydoll

    yea i said it to my bf.i felt really bad but you cant be forced to love someone.

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  • by 541541 on January 13th, 2009

    541541

    yeah. to my gf i told her that i loved her, walked away and realized i didnt mean it

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  • by mt g banger on January 13th, 2009

    mt g banger

    my last two boyfriends would say they loved me to me, but i didnt love them and would say 'that's sweet' or something similar. That was actually hard because i could tell they were upset i didnt say it back but in the long run when i broke up with them it made it slightly easier.

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  • by Thinker on January 13th, 2009

    Thinker

    Yes, I say I love someone quite often, I am not meaning I am IN love with them, but I love them as a friend, as a fellow human being. I see nothing wrong and much right with telling a friend or another person you love them; in fact as a Christian I am commanded to LOVE my neighbour as myself

    I think there should be more love in this world and less hate and disrespect.

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  • by vera city on January 13th, 2009

    vera city

    yep, when i was a child i used to say this to my foster mom, the wicked witch of the west, with the futile hope she would treat me better

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  • by jess.ikhw on January 13th, 2009

    jess.ikhw

    Yes, last year I did this kind of thing. from my experience, now I know that this is not a good thing to do. say "I love you" when you really mean it.

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  • by Seanzie is smiling again on January 13th, 2009

    Seanzie is smiling again

    No way. I don't use it lightly, and I find it hard to say! I can't even say it now

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  • by sickofgames on January 13th, 2009

    sickofgames

    no,i usally try and change the subject.i only say it if i mean it,has only happened a few times though

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  • by Anonymous on January 13th, 2009

    Anonymous

    yes. once when i was like real young... i didnt know what to say

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  • by Synderela on January 13th, 2009

    Synderela

    yes i have before in my past and now i wont say it until i mean it. "Love" is something that has to grow on me.

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  • by Isha on January 13th, 2009

    Isha

    yea i have... to my ex (he was my boyfriend then). i was young and honestly, i should never have been in that relationship. it was doomed from the second it started.

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