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by ginaorregina on January 18th, 2007

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I've been with my boyfriend for 20 years,we use to use alot of drugs, and have a wonderful sex life, now we don't even drink(thank God) and we have no sex life! Is there a way to bring the sex drive back without the drug use?

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  • by xxxxxxxxxx on January 18th, 2007

    xxxxxxxxxx

    have you guys gone to a sex store? there are lots of new interesting things at a sex store. you guys could get a book or calendar where you have to try a new sex position everyday, and they give you the position to do. there are tons of different things you can use/try from sex stores. try doing things you guys havent done. dont just go straight for home base. lol. take your time. haha.

    btw i think this is probably a question, and answer for the adult section. lol

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  • by jennifer225 on January 21st, 2007

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    well i think if you guys still have spark between you two then you should dress up for him, buy sex games, try to do things that pleases both of you and hopefully that woul help you guys to turn the switch back on...

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  • by jj135_uk on January 19th, 2007

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    I think you need to spend some time talking about your issues with each other. Maybe if you brought up the subject with him it would help. Other than that, spicing up the sex life does sound like a good idea!! Read my blog articles ar http://relationshipshell.blogspot.com

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  • by der Bingle on January 13th, 2012

    der Bingle

    No...drugs and hot sex go hand-in-hand.

    Only partake in the heavy drug use when you plan on having sex..otherwise abstinence is the best bet.

    It takes a lot of control and will power, but you can do it.

    Or maybe you've been together too long and the romance, passion, desire, and drive is gone...extinguished...dead.

    Time for some serious soul-searching if you don't want to go down the drugs-then-hot-and-heavy-animal-crazy-sex road...which I am totally joking about doing by the way.

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  • by sazzycat09 on September 12th, 2010

    sazzycat09

    try to spice up the relationship. not everything has to be pertaining to the sexual relationship itself. maybe if you try a few new things that you havent done in a long time it could help in the long run.

    maybe try to reconect as a couple, and let it lead to more fun in the bedroom. usually if one is happier in their relationship or with their significant other it does tend to trickle down to more fun in the bedroom. try a romantic dinner, try kareoke, watch the sun set, (not sure how old ya are but) possibly try something like laser light tag or sledding. something you would both feel comfortable doing but havent done yet.... heck if your an older couple maybe trying to feel like a kid again could help you both out by letting the daily life and daily stress melt away leaving you two more relaxed and comfortable with each other.


    if your looking to try things different in the bedroom you can always hit the adult book store, karmasutra books and so on. role play, and or act out a fantacy of your choices. ya never know! good luck.

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