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by happy_joy202 on January 11th, 2009

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I am in love with my best friend , i dont want to lose him by blowing it but my feelings are to strong to just go away how can i make this work very complacated

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  • by Rachel on January 11th, 2009

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    I fell in love with my best friend and we've been happily married for 2 1/2 years going on 50! Tell him/her? how you feel, if he/she doesn't concur then you know it wasn't ment to be and you can continue being great friends as always :)

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  • by jbigie on January 11th, 2009

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    I faced a similar situation not too long ago. You have two choices: Tell him about your feelings in an open manner, no pressure; or keep them to yourself, hoping that he never notices the way your gaze lingers on him, or you stand a little closer to him than the other guys you know.

    My advice would be to tell your friend your feelings. Maybe bring it up at the end of a normal get-together. It's difficult to work up the nerve to confess strong feelings for someone; but the chance that they share the feelings, or are willing to take a chance at more, is usually worth it.

    Even if he doesn't see you as anything besides a friend, you'll at least have that issue resolved. And if he is truly your best friend, he will be nice to you about it.

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  • by Gina A on January 12th, 2009

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    Tell that person a few things about how u feel and see if they make a comment that they might feel the same way. If that person does feel the same great. If they don't then back off on say anything else about it for a little while. Let that person's actions speak.

    I am in a similar situation. I love my best friend and he loves me and we want to be together, but right now the timing isn't right.

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