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#3 Would you rather have an ugly sexual partner who was great in bed, but was so ugly they we're somewhat of a social embarrassment. Or would you rather have a lovely sexual beautiful partner, who was terrible in bed, but made people envious of you?

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by Pink Dox on January 9th, 2009
your lucky you told me not to analyze this question too much because you would probably have been in trouble.

i don't select a lover based on other people perceptions. of course, there should be some kind of attraction. natural chemistry. as long as that's there along with all the other stuff (ie emotional connection,etc) then it's all good.
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by killdrphil - reasonable for a madman on January 28th, 2009
Well, I'm of the opinion that a woman can't really ever be bad in bed. Easy answer for me then: The beautiful one.
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- Agreed, kill. Big-time!
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  by philosopher-saint on January 28th, 2009
- Women definitely can be bad in bed.
  
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by philosopher-saint on January 8th, 2009
Call me superficial, insincere, an imbecil or moron (or not?!), but I've always gone the latter way here! I actually dig the *thought* or anticipation of sleeping w/ someone I'm after than the actual deed at times (I know, bizarre). I guess I'm insecure?
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by is it really? on February 3rd, 2009
i would go for the beautiful one. im not being shallow or anything, but there are others thing you could do together asides from sex. also i could always just hire myself a nice prostitute if i ever get really desperate
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by allikatzpop on February 1st, 2009
Lovely partner to make the others jealous and have an affair w/ the ugly partner
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by Mavericks just doin a flyby on January 28th, 2009
Are we talking like she would have Marty Feldman eyes and a hunchback? Hell, who am I kidding. If the sex is great you can't berate.
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  by Worth Repeating on January 28th, 2009
- Is that like Johnny Cochran's, "If the sex is shit, ya' gotta acquit."?!
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  by philosopher-saint on January 28th, 2009
- Kinda! LOL:)
  
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by ladyshakespeare on January 28th, 2009
the man i love is always beautiful to me, even if he is ugly. but good sex cant be faked.
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by Anonymous on January 28th, 2009
I'd prefer the partner with whom I'm most compatible.

Ignoring compatibility completely, I'd have to choose the former partner. Sexual chemistry is more important to me than social status.
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by ChandaDiane - est. 1975 on January 28th, 2009
Wow, I love me some good sex. Difficult question.

So ugly he is an embarrassment? a room can only get so dark...

I guess I'll have to hope the devastatingly handsome man would be teachable...
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by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
Gotta go for the sex..LOL :)
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- now that's not right sis :P
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- LOL..What..like you would want some lame ass in the bed..Not me..Take it off lay back and relax..I got this!!! LMAO :)
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- hahahaha :P
  how are you ?
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- Went up Monday and let them fix the leak in my face..so I am doing okay..how are you?
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- leak in your face? i'm ok thanks for asking.
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- Yeah sweetie I have been bleeding out of my nose for a week, everytime I would run or bend over or breath too much..LMAO It's stopped now :)
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- aww i'm sorry to hear that hun (((hugs))) love you sis
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- (((Hugs))) I love you too Sis :)
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- well thats to be expected i'm just lovable like that :P hehe kidding
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- You may have been kidding..but it's true! :)
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- aww thanks hun. oh want to hear something crappy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1394868 there i just made a new one :P
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- :D I love it!!! :)
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- that's because you are delusional but thanks :)
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- Not yet!! :P :)
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- right... :P
  i know my accent sucks but i'm working on it.
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- I happen to like your accent..:P
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- now you are getting old and not hearing so well :P
  
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  by .....----- on February 5th, 2009
- Well..yeah..so what..LMAO :P
  
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  by DreAnna on February 5th, 2009
- Hahaha nothing, sorry ma'am
  
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by Theby on February 5th, 2009
It is against my religion to answer this one. We are not to discuss sexual matters (even benign ones) in public.
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- interesting.
  
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  by Worth Repeating on February 5th, 2009
- Islam is an interesting religion! And bloody complex at times.
  
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  by Theby on February 5th, 2009
- lol ya it seems so. Thx a lot for answering my 10 questions, hope you enjoyed it. Have a good day friend!
  
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  by Worth Repeating on February 5th, 2009
- Thx SWP, The 10 questions were excellent. Thanks for suggesting I answer them. :D
  
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by Ritaholden on February 5th, 2009
I will have to take the hot in bed, not so good looking one. You should not be that intimate with anyone unless there are feelings there any way. So who cares if they are not what some say is "HOT" or not. Beauty comes from one's perception and individual taste. If you are great together, that is all that maters!!! We will all be what society says is ugly one day any way. All the cosmetic surgery in the world wont stop it. Have fun with your life and don't miss out on those great connections!!!!
ps.FYI
(Having your fiends jealous of you is truly over rated)!!!!
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- totally agreed. Luckily for me my girlfriend is both beautiful AND there's a great connection!
  
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by Tirador on February 5th, 2009
I'd rather have the one that didn't wear me out with blather about what happened on the Oprah show, and liked to fish and hunt.

Or was that a choice?

On the serious side, whichever I liked the best from a personality standpoint. I need her to be sensitive to my feelings and boost my ego. Makes me sound like an indecisive chicken shit, I know, but...

OK... I want the girl who is going to make me curl up in a fetal position and suck my thumb and whimper when she's done abusing my body.

I'll take Broom Hilda!!! *pulls off pants and waits*
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- DEF. THE LATTER, U CAN ALWAYZ TRY 2 TEACH HER NEW TRICKS... LOLLMAO!!!
  
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  by 3RD LETTA on February 5th, 2009
- nah, not chicken shit. I totally agree with you.
  
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by Spicy Hot on February 1st, 2009
Give me the ugly horny guy, PLEASE.
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- You call?
  
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  by Ditto on March 19th, 2009
- LOL, hey sexy!!!
  
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  by Spicy Hot on March 20th, 2009
- Hi Spicy. :-)
  
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  by Ditto on March 20th, 2009
- Where have you been hiding? I even looked under the bed.
  
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  by Spicy Hot on March 20th, 2009
- You should have looked ON the bed. I was right there in my tighty whiteys.
  
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  by Ditto on March 20th, 2009
- :-)
  
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  by Ditto on March 20th, 2009
- Oops, my bad, next time your mine.
  
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  by Spicy Hot on March 20th, 2009
- You know where to find me...
  
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by Colt COAT of Justice on January 30th, 2009
The supposedly ugly one! Looks are only skin deep!
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- good answer
  
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  by sickofgames on February 1st, 2009
- True response!
  
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  by Colt COAT of Justice on February 5th, 2009
- all people have a different option to what is beautiful
  
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  by sickofgames on February 6th, 2009
- Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say!! ;)
  
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  by Colt COAT of Justice on February 6th, 2009
- correct
  
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by .Pretty . Zombie. on January 28th, 2009
I'd rather have an ugly person who was great in bed.. I don't care about what others think about me.. so I don't care if they would be envious or think I should be embarrassed because I'd still be having better sex than them. =]
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- Exactly how I feel! :) Looks are very much overrated.
  
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by aydeology on January 28th, 2009
I wouldn't have a good time in bed knowing my partner was very ugly. I might feel repulsed. So I'd go with the beautiful one.
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by Mosexy on January 28th, 2009
Beautiful all the way. Not because I don't like good sex, but because I just love the idea of being able to "break" a man. Break him like a horse.

I'm sort of a dominant type, so as long as he's hot and willing to get naked, I don't mind taking care of the rest one bit.
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by cop out on January 28th, 2009
i would take a three legged alley bat that is good at everything anyday..
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by three cousins from the 313 on January 28th, 2009
If we are talking strictly sex give me the ugly chick
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by Big on January 28th, 2009
I would love to have a man that can do me the way I wanna be done....I can always shut off the lights or my eyes
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by neveroddoreven on March 9th, 2010
There needs to be some attraction, so id say somone who i thought was beautiful, there is more to life than sex. But i cound't care less about other people's reactions to them.
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by writemyselfaletter on October 19th, 2009
Neither
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by Leila on May 27th, 2009
The latter please.
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by Trevor on February 27th, 2009
Ugly.

If they're just a sex partner, it wouldn't really matter if she's a social embarrassment. I don't have to take her out anyway.
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by Anonymous on February 18th, 2009
the 'ugly' one because i dont really understand what is ugly and wats not? its so subjective! all we can go by is the media telling us what is beautiful and whats not. and in my eyes the women and men in my life are far more beautiful than any of those images. plus just because i may find someone physically attractive doesnt mean i feel for them sexually. i would rather hhave the great in bed/ ugly cuz i bet i would think they are the most handsome guy on earth and would think girls are jealous anyway cuz i would think he is hot as. plus great in bed is not so much about techniques but more about communication and connection therefore my assumption is the sexual attraction is prolly more with the 'ugly' person anyway ;o)
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- thanks =oD
  
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by Rabbit on February 17th, 2009
It depends how ugly. I was thinking of someone I know who is obese, balding, and has green teeth (I swear, they are really green) He is so gross, that I would never let him close enough to demonstrate any sexual skills he may posses. But if we're talking just regular ugly, I would rather have someone like that than an attractive person who did not know how to work it. I have dated and loved people who appeared more physically attractive after I got to know them, because of their personalities.
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by cynthia on February 5th, 2009
As Billy Crystal's character Fernando on Saturday Night Live used to say "It is better to look good than to feel good. ... and you look marvelous!" I think I'll take the looks over the sex.
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by Scifisuz on February 5th, 2009
I am drawn to atttractive men. My friends even tease me about how someone like me gets em....But I'd never commit to someone who didn't "satisfy" me.

All of the above please.
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- Wha die do?
  
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  by Scifisuz on February 5th, 2009
- You chose both answers. lol. Its okay. You should answer the rest of my "this or that" survey. Its on my profile. (but remember, its THIS OR THAT lol. not both.)
  
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by bettybaby on February 5th, 2009
looking through the answers. It seems like heterosexual women are more willing to take ugly men whereas straight guys are less willing to compromise on looks. Is that true?
I think I go along with the former.
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- I think thats true! I guess, if you think about it, Women don't really need much "skill" in bed. Some can just lay there and that would make a guy happy. (although, some women are AMAZING in bed, but that usually has to do with their mouth and how open minded they are). So men are saying they would pick the beauty, women are saying they would pick the skills. I would pick the former too. Looks are only skin deep.
  
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by Capital J on February 5th, 2009
haha ive been in this very situation. my ex isnt exactly a social embarassment but i dont go around braggin about her looks. but she can suck it like it aint nobodys buisness. my last gf was one of the most beautiful girls ive ever laid eyes on. why she dated me?? i dont know. she was soooooo boring in bed it was hard to cum. but just being attacted to her like i was made it worth it. she sucked in bed yet i wanted to have sex with her every second of the day. and nothing made me happier then when we would walk through the door and all eyes would be on us(basically her).
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by Anonymous on February 5th, 2009
The really good looking one. Practice makes perfect ;)
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by Popanna on February 5th, 2009
I would rather have an ugly person who was great in bed......because you mean ugly phyically and that really don't matter so much to me. I enjoy the fruit and not the flower.
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by Jane on February 5th, 2009
i'd take the good looking one.

I have dated guys that I dont make me feel like hot shit when i'm in a public setting and I can't do it for too long.
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- ok i will. lol. and thank you.
  
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by 3RD LETTA on February 5th, 2009
DEF. THE LATTER, U CAN ALWAYZ TRY 2 TEACH HER NEW TRICKS... LOLLMAO!!!
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by Beany on February 5th, 2009
The latter
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by Hardcore Conservative on February 5th, 2009
You can always teach the hot one what to do. Maybe bring over her good looking girlfriend and we can show her what to do...
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by Wind Walker on February 5th, 2009
The good looking one makes me fantasize all day about it. Which really builds up the anticipation.

The ugly one would only be good for those few minutes.
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by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on February 1st, 2009
as long as they were frequent in bed that can improve with experience. assuming sex is frequent and can improve, I'll take beauty over predeveloped skills.
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by Sid on February 1st, 2009
The latter.
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by alderson on February 1st, 2009
you'd rather have a looker on your arm! god made you with a right hand if she was that bad in bed
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by marstak on February 1st, 2009
The former
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by Buttercup on January 30th, 2009
I would have to be attracted to them so I guess I'd have to teach the pretty one.
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by kassondra on January 28th, 2009
a couple years ago i would have answered this differntly. i would have chosen the shitty sex for a good personality. but my bf is sooooo good in bed i think i would choose him even if he was really ugly...( he isnt though, he is very handsome) but anyways yes i could never go back to shitty sex....i would def choose sex over looks
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- thats wassup! I made my girlfriend answer this question, and she totally side-stepped answering! she shouldve answered it like you did.
  
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by david1911 on January 28th, 2009
If it was a pretty chick you could always just have really rough sex with her then she really doesnt have to do anything and its still good.
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by Blackberry. on January 28th, 2009
The latter, though it also depends on how ugly. I could care less what society thinks of people's looks, but if someone is just globally accepted as ugly, I'd like a pretty woman.
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#3 Would you rather have an ugly sexual partner who was great in bed, but was so ugly they we're somewhat of a social embarrassment. Or would you rather have a lovely sexual beautiful partner, who was terrible in bed, but made people envious of you?

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